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*lwayznd4eva116
writes:So I started talking to this guy on Facebook. And my homecoming was a week later, so I invited him to my college to see me for homecoming. He said he was coming, and surprisingly he did. My college is 5 hours away from where he lives, so I knew he came up here with intentions on sleeping with me. We did, but he also did more then that. After that night, we talked on the phone until 5am ALL tha time for two weeks straight. Then I went home for october break and I seen him, We chilled, and did a lot more, too. The thing I was confused about was that he said I was his "girlfriend" after that first night he met me. I asked him what made me different from the other girls, and he gave me the story that I'm in school, doin something with my life. I didnt believe it at all. When I was home, I asked him if I could go chill with my friend who is also a boy, he got mad and now we dont even talk anymore. Its only been a month, that we were "together" but its like Its really bothering me that we dont talk anymore. I just dont understand, why he would travel 5 hours to see me, and talk to me everyday after that if he was just going to break up with me after a few weeks. He said its over, but he writes subliminal statuses on FB, so is he really over me? Or Should I just move on??
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reader, alwayznd4eva116 +, writes (22 October 2010):
alwayznd4eva116 is verified as being by the original poster of the question yeah maybe your right...thanks guys. 3
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Try not to read into things. He could have gotten that tattoo for many reasons. The thing you need to focus on is why hasn't he bothered to return any of your contacts. I still think you should move on.
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reader, alwayznd4eva116 +, writes (21 October 2010):
alwayznd4eva116 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm really torn. Part of me wants to keep trying but the other part says to just let it go. I have this tattoo on my finger that says "love" and he had told me that he was gunna get the same tattoo, and that would be our "signature" or sumthin..so the day he was supposed to get it, he didnt. After we stopped talking, i looked at his facebook page, and i seen that he got it. does that mean anything? im looking at that as a sign that he wants to still try to work it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): no no dont give up he wants you to say something to him back. he wants you to appolgize even though you didnt do anyhing. but make it clear that your going to be with friends male or female
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 October 2010):
I would suggest moving on. This dude has some jealousy issues, and big ones. If he got so upset over something so small, then you just have a front row seat for more of the same problems in the pipeline. Usually if a relationship ends so quickly, it is for the best because neither party is truely compatable.
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