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writes:A guy that I really like and I think likes me just got a friend to ask me out for him! I'm not sure whether to say yes or no because he's known as a bit of a player but his mate says that he genuenly likes me and that he has changed and wouldn't want to hurt me. I don't know what to say because my Mate went out with him and said that he will just hurt me like he did to her! I'm really confused because when I told him I'd think about it he was really understanding and not his usual self! I'm really confused please help!
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reader, HotGeek  +, writes (19 October 2010):
He used a friend to ask you out? That's an automatic "no". Unless you're 14 and lying about your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Oh boy! Dnt do it. Ur name wil just end up on his list. B rememberd as that one who altho liked him, stil respectd myself. If he really has a bad past then ull b surprized at how quick he comes up with a dif. Girl..
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 If you like him, then go for it. If he is known to be a player the problem then becomes the fact that he'll say and do anything to get laid. Truth holds no real importance to a player. "I've changed." Bullshit. "It will be different for us." Bullshit. How do you think he can still get laid while having the reputation as a player? He has gotten good at saying what he knows you want to hear.
So, if you go out with him, don't let him in your pants. Give yourself a dedicated timeline of 3 months minimum. I know, it will suck, but you'll also have a better chance of weeding out his true intentions. If he is dedicated, with little or no play at all, then he may have changed. I somehow doubt he has though.
Proceed with extreme caution and don't have sex with him without getting tested for STD's first. Don't bend on this. No reason for you to get the Herps or worse!
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