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Why would my boyfriend do this? am really hurt:(?

Tagged as: Cheating, Dating, The ex-factor, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (18 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

my boyfriend told me his ex messaged him on facebook and said she misses him.. she then added him on facebook and blackberry chat and theyve been chatting since.

she says she wants him back..i asked my bf if he loves her he said he loves me and that i dont need to worry.

thing is we havent been together for long and on blackberry chat my bf had on his status 'Am Stuck In The Middle' what the hell does this mean??

what should i do or say to him?? should i just not call or text him and let him come to or what??

please help me:(

thnx..xx

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A female reader, absynthe United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2010):

absynthe agony auntthoughy chick, you dont wanna seem jealous or needy,

you just got to think this maybe hard for him aswell.

if he has told you not to worry then maybe you shouldnt, and trust him with this, or have a subtle calm conversation about it and see where the ground lies,

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010):

Im sorry to say, but his status means that he is confused to who he should be with.

But you guys are there for a reason, and im sure you guys will continue the relationship.

Heres my advice: Ask him to be honest, and then ask what his facebook status mean.

but no matter what he says, distance yourself ... cause he will then realise that he misses you. and if not, it will save you alot of hurt

hope everything goes well sweetie!

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