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writes:My boyfriend and i have been having problems. He says he loves me but thinks he would be happier is he didn't have feelings for me, yet he doesn't want to risk going without me. we are each other's first loves. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! he doesn't want to be together i guess :/... but he wants the separation to be a mutual one
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Well it sounds that maybe you both have ran in to some problems and he doesnt want to love you right now as it would be easier for him to walk away. Although this is quite selfish as he needs to be able to work hard on your relationship and it doesnt sound like he can be bothered doing it.
We all think that our first love is going to last forever but this is rarely the case, we go through heart ache but this makes us stronger as a person and makes us learn how to deal with relationships.
So sit down with him and tell him you need to know exactly how he feels and why he wishes he didnt have feelings for you, he needs to be honest with you and you him if it is going to work.
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