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writes:i have a relationship of almost three years with my boyfriend,and we now staying together in the same house.am famaliar with his family and he is famaliar with my family also..for the past month i started to suspect he is cheating on me,i went to an extent of scrollling his phone ,i found messages for da girl and he denied it,and when i talk about that he will get angry,i love him and i don't want to loose him,and i know he is cheating on me though i spend much of my time with him..pls help i love my man and it pains me to see messages from another woman telling him how much she loves her..pls wipe my tears away. Reply to this Question
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reader, justme4me  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Hi,i wouldn't want to start by telling you it was wrong for u to have lived in d same house with him.the closenes made him see certain things in u he thinks isnt right.Obviously u've lost him cos for a uy who u've loved for three years not consider ur feelings it means he's found himself some nicer girl.
you deserve more than living with a guy who brings u so much pain without consideration.Even if your families are aware of the relationship they sure can not force either of u to be with each other when u dont wwant to so do yourself a favour and get a new life.
I hope this helps.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 I am so sorry to have to say this but it sounds as though you have already lost him. Is he still texting her? If he is then that shows he does not even care about how much he is hurting you and you know that you deserve better than him.
I know you love him but do you not wish for someone who will love you this way? It seems as though your love for him is so strong, you are almost willing to overlook his unfaithful displays. You deserve someone who will love you just as strongly. I cannot say much else, I can only tell you that you need to move on from him because this is not the way a man should treat a woman who loves him so much.
I hope that helps.
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