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Confugulated
writes:So I walked into my girlfriend's house yesterday to find another man there. I already knew she'd been involved with a different fella over the past couple of months, but then I find this new guy there. Looks like the first one dumped her and straight away she's found yet another. Unbelievable. This was yesterday morning.We were in the process of breaking up, but this did it finally. She admitted to sleeping with this guy who is married with 2 children and 10 years older than her, 14 years older than me. She apparently had a three year affair with him which ended 14 years ago.I still want her back, but she said she doesn't love me in that way any more. We'd recently become engaged and she wants to keep the ring as she likes it, Said she'd give me the money for it. As far as I know she's still wearing it on the same finger. She says in time maybe we can give it another go, she doesn't know.Anyway, just wanted to share this as I am absolutely heartbroken.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 Dear young one... Please count this as an eye opener event of your life, and not heart broking event. Heart is so important that it should not be allowed to break for cheap thing...keep it reserve for some worthy personality.
Sex is always taste as heaven, and it should not be confused with love. Love is personally felt experience for some one who deserve such feeling. See, love is subjective and and sex is universal.
I am saying you this, with the expectation that it will allow you to feel right 'feeling'.
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (8 February 2010):
 Maybe she likes the fact that you love her so much. I'm not sure what the ring is about. Though, get her to pay you for it! At least then you'll save some money and not have to deal with the extra baggage.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (8 February 2010):
Wow, you must really love her. It might seem sad but you really need to move on, or you will lose all self-respect.
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reader, manontherun  +, writes (7 February 2010):
My good man ! move on ! She is saying she doesn't know to spare your feelings . She is gone . The only reason she is keeping the ring is .... because she likes it . It has no sentimental meaning for you .
The only way possible to get her back is by changing what she doesn't like about you & ask her truthfully . Be prepared tho because they might be truths that you can not change .
My best advice is to move on , find someone else or get a new hobby .
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2010): aww sorry to hear that bbe..
some gals like to keep the ring cuz its nice or reminds them of what they had or sometimes they just wear it just because they dont want to take it of yet so if thats the case then she must still feel something but she also cant expect you to wait...
you should go and have a wicked nite out wiv the lads and forget bout it for a nite but i hope it all works out bbe x
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reader, Confugulated +, writes (7 February 2010):
Confugulated is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry, what I meant to ask was what's the ring thing all about? Why would she go on wearing it?
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