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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My boyfriend cheated and I have all the proof but he keeps denying it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - This is probably a no brainer but I'm asking anyway, found out my boyfriend has been texting and chatting with his ex, I confronted him and he promised to stop because he didn't want to lose me the problem is he hasn't I checked his phone and have ...

I think I'm starting to hate my best friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice with a certain situation that my friend (we'll call her molly) got herself in to. We've been friends for about 5 years and we used to relate to each other so well. We were so close until about 4 months ago. That's when she ...

What can I do? My ex ghosted me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend whom I've been sleeping with, ghosted me for someone else a month ago. I found this out from mutual friends. I feel absolutely horrible. I feel strung along, used, worthless, hopeless, "not good enough".. Its pretty pathetic. why no...

Seeking your opinions, please! Is he covering up dating another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I have been seeing this man for quite awhile now. Recently there were some pics of him on Instagram with another girl. I questioned him about if he was seeing anyone and his reply was no. I then sent the pic to him and he still says this is not h...

Why does my heart warm up when I see my ex? What's up with my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I am now into my third year of a wonderful relationship. We got together about 6 months after breaking up with my daughters father, which was a very turbulent time. Some his fault, but I admit, I never made things easy by cheating several times(he...

Sexual tension you could cut with a knife... But we're both married. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3097 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - So I have an issue at work that I need some help dealing with. There is this guy a few years older (married with kids) who has always on and off lightly flirted with me. I ignore him because I'm married as well. Over the past couple of months...

Feeling obsessed and desperate. Who really is my baby's Daddy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - Hello there, I am really hoping someone can help me here with some advise and no judgment. I am 31 years old and married for 5 years. My husband and I share a daughter that is 3 years old. Last year we are having a lot of trouble in our marriage ...

Is my boyfriend's dirty laundry a sign of him cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - This morning i put on a wash and noticed a medium amount of white stain in my fiances underwear at the top of the pile. Excluding masturbation (as i was around him most of the day), can anyone tell me what this is? He did have a shower before he ...

Should I tell my best friend this secret about her boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - Hello aunt Advice needed!! I was catching up with an old high school friend, we were very close but we lost contact now in college were close again. We decided to go have a girls night, during the dinner she asked about my best friend and vice ...

Do I tell the woman I'm dating that I had an affair with a married co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

28 May 2016 (M) - I need help, this has been driving me crazy recently, giving me endless sleepless nights. Ill set the context. Last August/September not other way of saying this other than I started having an affair with a married woman. Now im 26 and was free and...

Is this cheating type behavior? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3099 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend, I've been very unhappy and paranoid lately. I hate to jump to conclusions and sound crazy but I have a gut feeling my boyfriend is cheating, or at the very least spending time and talking to another girl. Th...

I'm angry that my mother believed rumors of me cheating with a married man and I'm unhealthy because of all the stress!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3099 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I've been having some issues after some events from a year ago and was hoping for a bit of clarity or advice. Here i go... Around the begining of last year my partner of 7 years and I decided to take a break from the relationship to ...

How can I ask my husband to consider an open marriage? Cheating has never been a part of our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I’d like to discuss with my husband a possibility of an open marriage but don’t know how to do it. First of all he may think I literarily lost my mind. You see, I was always a good girl/woman, did what was expected of me, while my husband was free...

What can or should I do? I can't stop thinking about another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I'm in big trouble. I haven't been happy in my marriage for years now. I still love my husband and like him but not like I used to, he is an alright person but does some questionable things. He has been unfaithful with another woman. However he ...

She is wonderful, fulfills all my needs in life, but I'm not in love with her. Should I reconnect with an ex, instead, despite problems likely to result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

25 May 2016 (M) - 5 years ago me and my partner that I have children with went through a very rough patch and I ended up cheating on her. Me and her friend ended up falling for each other but in the end I couldn't deal with the guilt and told her what has been go...

What should I do? Things don't feel right in our relationship. I still feel betrayed at times!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I are having a major problem and I come to you for help. We've been married almost 3 years, no children. He wanted to separate for a bit and so I agreed. I went to go stay at my dads. Out of hurt and anger I told him I would be filin...

I can't imagine breaking up with him, and I can't live with my married lover. How do I cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 3 years this June. He has told me he does not love me. But he loves having sex with me. The passion we share and the sex we have is out of this world. Even after 3 years, we continue to reac...

Why do people want strippers at celebration parties just before they marry?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - Hi this is a weird question because its a hypothetical. I think its very strange that before two people get married they are encouraged to have strippers at their bachelor/ bachelorette parties. I've never been to a strip club even though it w...

He said I was 'the one' but I found out he has a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - my ex and I have been having a fling for a couple years, I had hopes and though it would lead us back together. he would say I love you but I don't want to settle just yet but when I do your the one. I always had the impression we were very clo...

I need help ending this affair

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - We both were friends from past 6yrs like since from our college days. We were close enough and one day conffessed him that I was having crush on him and so he confessed the same. Because of this we became more close and we used flirt with each ...

I thought there were mutual feelings but that the timing was off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - Definitely needs some advice here, So my boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time now, (3+ years). While I do care for him, we are opposites and have been on and off. 2 years ago, I went on a trip with my school and met a guy (al...

I live with my boyfriend but so much want to be with another guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years, i live with my partner, but i am not happy have not been happy with him for a while. I have met this really nice guy who i have known for a while and i want to be with this new guy so much, but i dont know ...

What should I do? Is it understandable that I'm hurt that my boyfriend wants to be friends with a woman he cheated with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Last night my phone was dead and I could not find my charger. So I asked my boyfriend if I could use his phone because I had to call my sister for something important. I'm not the type to snoop but I saw 3 calls in the call log from a woman my...

Can I learn to trust him? He went back to ex and then left her for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - Hello so I got into a relationship with an older male and we were together for a year in which time he moved in with me and I fell pregnant. However, I started to get my suspicions that he was still sleeping with his ex towards the end of the ...

How can I stop? My fiance is going to leave me if I don't stop this behavior.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - I am getting married in four months time, and my problem is this: basically I have been constantly obsessing over my partner's past, and all the things that he did wrong at the start of our relationship. I know it is irrational but cannot stop, and ...

I'm not sure if I should leave or stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

18 May 2016 (F) - I'm unhappily married. My husband cheated a few yrs back, I've since fallen out of love with him, the thought of finding someone else excites me. I'm not going to allow myself into a position where I might cheat, but I'm unsure if I can go through ...

Why are some people so critical of open relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

18 May 2016 (F) - So I am letting my fiance have sex with another woman (who herself is in an open relationship) next week. They have already had a date and kissed etc. It's the first time he will have sex outside of our relationship. Rationally I am pretty ok wit...

I'm a confused, betrayed and broken mama! Should I try to meet his mistress?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

17 May 2016 (F) - Hi, i just discovered that my husband of 4yrs is having an affair at his office. My instinct told me something wasn't right but i tried to remain positive and trust him,some sent me an anonymous text message which made me connect the dots and ...

I need advice! I'm young, married and unhappy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

17 May 2016 (F) - Hi looking for advice. My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 6. About two years ago I moved for work, we had talked it over and agreed he would move the rest of our stuff and then come join me in a month. However he ended up ...

Help ! I need help to learn how to let go of all this hate I feel for this woman who so belittled me and hurt me so much.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I posted on here September 2014 time- about my cheating boyfriend of 5 years. Well I decided to give things another chance and it's the best decision I ever made. Whilst I don't mean this literally, him cheating was one ...

Met this guy and he has a Gf. What should I do? I am yet to tell me that I'm divorcing my husband.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - My husband I have agreed to divorce. We still live together because it's convenient but we treat each other as roommates and I will probably stay at our house for at least next three months. About two months ago I met a guy through mutual friends....

Why do intense passionate affairs always come to an end?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) - I'm a married woman whos been having an affair with a single man for about two years now...I know its wrong, but he's so good looking, interesting, kind, and really seems to care about what I have to say...And the sex is Amazing.....my best friend ...

We have a complicated 30 years together. I want to help my husband but don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

13 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I were high school sweethearts. I was his first and he lied and said he had a few and I also lied and told him I had 2-3. It was a lot of partners. He has defended my honor in this little town we live in and has never questioned my ...

I'm married and had sex with a married man and now he wants nothing to do with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3113 days ago

13 May 2016 (F) - Hi i am a married and have 10 childrens with my husband...I had sex with a a married man and then fell in love with him, after that only one day of sex in the park he now ignores me...and acts like i dnt exist im angry and feel like he used me...

Am I over-reacting? Is this girl trying to cause trouble?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

11 May 2016 (F) - Hi my boyfriend and I are both in our 30's. We have been together a few years. There is one particular woman I have been having an issue with for a couple of years. I don't know their relationship, I suspect he cheated on me with her though he ...

Why did my boyfriend tell me he was with his mom all day when he actually went out without her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - Hello. I need your help in figuring out my boyfriend's actions today. Here is what happened. I texted him this morning at around 11. I said "good morning" to him like usual. But there was no reply. Usually he replies pretty quickly. I th...

Can my cheating be condoned? Should I feel guilt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3114 days ago

10 May 2016 (F) - Here is my current situation... I am a married 35 year old with 2 kids and I am currently cheating happily. I know how it sounds but hear me out. I have been in my relationship with my husband for 12 years. I like to think we are good parents, we...

Should I tell her I slept with our friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3115 days ago

10 May 2016 (M) - Hello my aunts! Im back again. You guys gave me great advice about how to handle my bad situation with my not so faithfull wife. I followed it and it worked out. The only downside is she kicked me out. which means less time with my babies before I ...

Should I leave my wife because of her fixation on finding “the big one”?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

9 May 2016 (M) - My wife is totally ignorant to me on occasssion. Thoughtless or worse. She cheated 4 years ago looking for 'the big one' as I caught her when she left FB open. It was a coworker and the brief fling happened after she lost her job. Turns out he w...

Are all European women this agressive? How about men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3116 days ago

9 May 2016 (M) - My wife and I move around a lot because of my work. We have been together for 18 years (married for 15). We both wear rings. And please understand that I am not writing this to brag, I have never been chased by ladies, I would really appreciate some ...

Why can't I get over him? Why is he still in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3117 days ago

9 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys i have this problem i went out with this guy and he cheated on me and we broke up. B ut i cant get over him i always think about him, and he's a family friend, so i see him a lot and its so awkward to be around him. I don't want it awkw...

I cheated and now I'm 6 weeks pregnant. Troubled and at the crossroads. Abort or stay pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - I am 21, have a 3 year old girl and have been with the father for almost 5 years. We moved together 7 months ago to a new house with a roomate who is close friends of us, (used to live at parents home, never had a stable relationship, always c...

What do I tell my friend about her 'relationships' ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

8 May 2016 (F) - My friend has just shocked me with what she has just said, she told me she is seeing 2 guys. They dont know about each other and they live miles from each other and have no friends in common and she's kept this quiet until now. No-one knew she...

I have two women after my love, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

8 May 2016 (M) - this is the story of the first woman who is after me Im 20 and she is in her thirties. I moved in with my cousin in September. Within a couple of months my cousins wife made a move on me when he was at work and her son was up stairs asleep i was ...

My boyfriend likes meeting new girls and gets very flirty with them! Is this messed up or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

6 May 2016 (F) - I have an issue regarding my boyfriend. I don't know if it's a serious issue or I'm just over reacting. Basically to put it in a nutshell, my boyfriend likes meeting new girls and getting to know them. My boyfriend is a very nice guy, but is also...

My ex acts like he's interested but he does not want to break up with his Girlfriend. Is he playing both of us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

5 May 2016 (F) - In my opinion, I am in a very unstable relationship with my ex boyfriend. As much as I love him and want to be with him, i think he's not being fair to me and being very sketchy. I don't think he's intentionally trying to hurt me but he's putting ...

Has anyone here fallen in love with a married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3121 days ago

5 May 2016 (F) - Has anyone in this group never fallen in love with a married man and decided to stay on the side in case he leaves his wife? If yes did he ever leave his wife? Is it a possibility that he may leave his wife?...

Does my fiance's female friend fancy him? Should I be concerned? How should I handle this situation?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3120 days ago

4 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice please I feel awful. My boyfriend and I got engaged recently and I couldnt be happier about it, there is just one thing that is really getting me down and making ne question everything. He has a female school friend w...

He swears there's nothing romantic going on. Should I believe him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3122 days ago

3 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm a single mom, I'm stuck in a rut. I've been seeing this guy for a year now. We've had some major ups and major downs. Lately though, it's just all downs. He's befriended a waitress at his local bar (he goes just about every day)...

Why will a married man NOT leave his mistress, even when affair is in danger of being exposed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

2 May 2016 (F) - Why won't a married man give up his long time mistress EVEN when their affair is in danger of being exposed to the world and to his wife? For example: Some people in their work place are starting to become suspicious. But he still won't leave hi...