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writes:Hi i am a married and have 10 childrens with my husband...I had sex with a a married man and then fell in love with him, after that only oneday of sex in the park he now ignores me...and actslike i dnt exist im angry and feel like he used me...what doi do...i get angry every time i see him with his wife...Sheis so beautiful and dont understand why he wanted to havesex with me if he realy loved his wife i feel angry and used..i call him at his work and he tells me not to call him backand that hes sorry about what happened....i dont love myhusband anymore cause im crazy over this man that i had sex with but now he doesnt want to know me what do ido now im so confused....Tears tears tears...
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (13 May 2016):
 Well you must have loved your Husband at least TEN times to have 10 children by him? How many do you need for a Rugby Union team in NZ? There are another 5 more kids to go?
Listen you're not thinking straight or acting responsibly – sex in the park with a married man! You need to close your legs and understand he’s not used you as much as you used him, because you’re the one not so in love with your husband.
I suggest you leave this man alone in his guilt, not cause any trouble between him and his wife, as you may find yourself with an angry (EX) husband and cause your children tears, tears, tears.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2016): He is a total dick.He lured you in and then spit you out like trash.He knew you were vulnerable and he preyed on your vulnerability. Do you want a guy like that?You should be ANGRY at him. Disgusted in fact. And if his wife ever found out, so should she!Are you the first? Doubt it.Will you be the last? Doubt it.Don't waste your time on him. You made a mistake in judgment. We are all human. And I am sorry for your pain. I know how badly it hurts. But do not end up like me. Being with a married man for years knowing you are now in love with him and he is still with his wife. There is no pain worse than that. At least you are in time to move on. And trust me, it will hurt so much less cutting contact now.I will add that if he ever does try to contact you again, make sure you shut him down and never step back into his messed up web. He will only take you to hell with him.I wish you the best.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 May 2016):
 The best thing that you can do is realize that he does not want to be with you, he used you for sex. So just leave him alone now and move on with your life. Then I guess you should leave your husband, or at the very least tell him the truth about what you have been up to. Then I would suggest thinking about your future and your children.
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (13 May 2016):
 Sex and love, for some, two very different things. Many men and women love their partners but cheat. Who knows what and why he was thinking it, thing is he realises he has done wrong and would prefer you and it go away. Don't be confused about that. Best to do as he ask by not being in contact. He is is damage control and thinking you can win his affections by wanting to confess your feelings in some way will no doubt end with humiliating consequences and further heartache for you.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (13 May 2016):
 You are irresponsible. First of all, 10 children? Ten? Are you your own personal baby farm for NZ?
Then you look for more sex outside your marriage. Was that unprotected too? And to cap it all you interfere with someone else's marriage.
He wants to forget it ever happened - probably coping with his guilt - and you can't keep your knees together.
Lady you are a nightmare! You need to take a long hard look at your behaviour.
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