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Why can't I get over him? Why is he still in my head?

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Question - (9 May 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2016)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Hi guys i have this problem i went out with this guy and he cheated on me and we broke up.

B ut i cant get over him i always think about him, and he's a family friend, so i see him a lot and its so awkward to be around him.

I don't want it awkward but it is i just miss him

why cant i get over him?

why is he still in my head?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (9 May 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntOkay so he cheated on you, which means he did not show you any respect at all, it shows he was not serious about your relationship. Now you need to stand up and say you won't allow a guy to treat you this way. It is okay to think about him still, that is only natural, but this will fade in time. If you see him a lot, be polite and say hello but don't hang out with him or engage in a conversation, show him that he cannot just mess you around.

It is normal to miss him, but it does get easier with time, distract yourself with friends and family, delete everything that reminds you off him and concentrate on other things in your life.

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A female reader, bettybuttercup United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2016):

Hi I'm In a similar situation. If he CHEATED on you then he doesn't deserve you. He doesn't want to be with you and cheating on you proves it. You are bound to miss him. I can't stop thinking of my ex who I dumped and this was about a month ago. Try and do things with your friends to take your mind off him. Try not to talk about him and delete any songs which remind you of him. Delete or block his number and unfriend him on social sites. Delete pictures. I know it's hard but it really does help. You can find someone better than that. He's just a total idiot. X

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