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writes: My ex-boyfriend whom I've been sleeping with, ghosted me for someone else a month ago. I found this out from mutual friends. I feel absolutely horrible. I feel strung along, used, worthless, hopeless, "not good enough".. Its pretty pathetic.why not tell me the truth? why her not me?Any advice would help, thanks..
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (31 May 2016):
Why? Because you were giving him sex without asking him for commitment. Once that got boring to him, he had no real reason to stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2016): Hi know how you feel, it happened to me six months ago, I treated her like an angle, she said she wanted a nice guy well, I was all that but, she ghost me, a woman friend of mine, talk me into texting, her to ask why , she said i was to intense, in four months I never said I loved her, didn't say all the time I miss her, I was to nice, so do not try to get a hold of him, do not text or call, I wish I didn't, cause then they think they hurt you an they like that, they are cold hearted I do very much know how you feel
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 May 2016):
 Why?
Because it's easy. It's like tossing trash out of the car window. You zoom away so fast you don't have to feel guilty for trashing nature.
If he had called you, he would have had to deal with you and your reaction. He chose not to.
WHY OH WHY??? Waste any more energy on this guy? If someone cares SO little about you that he will ghost you for another girl.
Block his number, then delete and dry your eyes... you didn't lose out on some great guy - you lost out on a guy who DIDN'T care enough to call you and end it.
Doesn't mean the other girl WON something here either. She got "him".... the dude who showed SO little respect to a woman he was dating. Doesn't mean she is better in any way either. He just wanted to try another flavor.
So stop beating yourself up for HIS actions. Take a minute and consider... was there things that I could have done/not done? And then you move on.
And the who he "used" me, let it go. You two didn't have as deep of a connection as you may have thought. IT HAPPENS!
Ghosting apparently is getting more and more common. Manners.. less common.
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