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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Fiancée's attitude makes me sick but how can I leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

30 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago me and my fiancée of 2 years went to her parents house for her mom's birthday. It was there, her mother told the family she was sick. This is the wonderful woman who put my fiancée through school twice!, bought her a car when she graduated and still pays half ... (204 words)

Feelings for my cousin driving me crazy. What's the answer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

30 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Help. I have started having incestuous feelings towards my cousin I can't help it but she is causing it unintentionally, how do I tell her without making it awkward for both of us? My cousin is very close to me she is the only child and we work in the same city. Recently she ... (262 words)

Feeling jealous of my sister. Any ideas on how to sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I feel in a way jealous of my sister, she's 26 and I'm 22, she's married and has 3 children, I really love children, I work with children. I have no partner though. I really wish I was my sister. I'm a shy person so find it hard to form relationships. Any ideas on how... (68 words)

Do I give it a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy online just over a month ago. From the start he was very intense, touchy feely not in a player way but a needy way. This was a turn off for me, which I told him. He acknowledges that but was still persistent to get to know me. I’m only looking for a long ter... (313 words)

How do I deal with my father being a heavy presence in my life and the guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My beloved mom passed away 5 years ago. i am married and live 10miles away from my father who is single and has been living in the same house he's been living his whole life. The hose is clean because he has a cleaning lady but in terrible conditions. And my father is a heavy ... (240 words)

My boyfriend has let his house go it makes me uncomfortable and I can't talk to him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend in the last few months has really let his house go and it's a real mess. It's got to the stage where I don't want to be there, we're long distance so coming to mine isn't always an option. When I've tried to discuss it with him he said that because he's highly ... (94 words)

Is he cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hai everyone. ......my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Two nights ago my boyfriend told he was going to have some beer with his friend/housemate at a local bar. I told him I was okay with it and that he should have fun. Two hours later he told me they were ... (382 words)

I'm worred that my girlfriend is going to dump me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now and it has been great until recently when we spent a whole week together aboard in Spain. At the start it was all lovey dovey but then towards the end she got cold, admittedly I made small mistakes when she was tired which ... (102 words)

Is it appropriate to send my ex work colleague Christmas card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess this is kind of a silly question but I would like some advice please. I would like to know if it is appropriate to send my ex work colleague Christmas card? Basically at the start of the year, for about 5 monts I worked in a job that I wasn't particularly happy... (245 words)

I don't want to lose her friendship over spur of the moment sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

30 November 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I had sex with one of my flatmates after a drunken Halloween party last month and I fear it’s destroyed our friendship. I’m 20, she’s 21. We live in a halls of residence flat at university with 4 other students, and are in our second year. We’ve always got on the second we met ... (587 words)

Why is my boyfriend looking up engagement rings now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am living with boyfriends parents to save money for a house deposit. We should have it in about 6 months time! But it will realistically be a year before we actually move out. My boyfriend has always insisted that we do not get engaged whilst under his parents roof. However ... (153 words)

Do couples go through stages where they don't have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. At first, sex was great. It was passionate and it happened often. Now my boyfriend never seems to want sex. What makes me confused is that we still have great chemistry, great conversations, he shows a lot of affec... (474 words)

I seem to be suffering from delayed ejaculation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

30 November 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 28 and I've been having sex for a decade now with different partners (not a large amount, I'm not that kind of guy) and a week ago I ended up meeting and sleeping with a new girl in Vegas. We actually hit it off really well and it turns out she lived close to me in ... (316 words)

I'm angry that my partner returned the iPhone he found to its owner

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - What would you do if you found a I phone? My partner found one by his car and it belonged to a woman because it had a case with flowers on to protect it and a photo of her and her fella. My partner said to see if she rang for her phone and if she did he would return it... (361 words)

My husband is not the most attractive man but I fear I'm not good enough for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Beem with my husband 23 years married 19. I have no confidence in myself and hate the way i look but try to make the most of myself. I have blonde hair that sits on my shoulders and im thinking of getting it cut shorter as i feel like a new look and i feel i need a change. ... (369 words)

A mutual friend warned me the guy I'm dating just wants casual sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and recently started seeing him for about a week. However, I don't know if he's looking for anything serious or not, and I don't want to ask and make things awkward. A mutual friend of ours, told me that he's not look... (602 words)

I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over 2 years, until recently. We'd b... (587 words)

Is it normal to be this fearful of something bad happening to my baby son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just had the most beautiful baby boy who I am just besotted with. I am so blessed. But I am terrified of something awful happening him. Everytime I am enjoying him, I am consumed by this fear. I don't sleep, I stay awake just to make sure he is breathing. I know I cant ... (112 words)

Keeping secrets is eating me up so why do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry in advance about the long post - i need an outsiders perspective. I have been in an on-off relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past two years. We were together solidly for two years and now we have been on and off for the past couple of years. We broke up becau... (278 words)

I think he cheated, he's denying it and I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I found out My boyfriend cheated on me. We went to a freqklash together in June which is a rave and at about 1 in the morning he just left without telling me n was supposed to stay at mine. I thought it was strange. Then I got told about a week ago and sent the screen ... (319 words)

How do I know what this guy's intentions are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night wedding. I met a guy he was on the table infront of me. I felt attracted to him but the first time he asked me to dance i said maybe in a bit. I tend to be a bit guarded. Another guy asked me and i turned him down because the other guy already had my attention, he ... (230 words)

Why does my girlfriend all of the sudden have that horrible odor down there??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

29 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I have kind of an embrassing question... My girlfrirnd is on birth control so we have alot of unprotected sex. Probably atleast 3 to 5 times a day. I always cum inside of her since she can't get pregnant while she is on the birth control. The birth control is new to her, she ... (390 words)

Why do women become so much more interesting when you are committed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3276 days ago

29 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello cupid I'm recently committed after a long time and I have been very comfortable and happy with my girlfriend. Before meeting my girlfriend, many girls showed interest but I was adamant to stay single till I find the person I can be fully myself and comfortable. ... (204 words)

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me throughout the relationship sleeping... (290 words)

Why is my boyfriend suddenly indifferent about his ex who's now engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - TDLR my boyfriend is suddenly completely indifferent about his ex after hearing she got engaged. What could be the reason for this sudden change of heart??? Long version: My boyfriend found it extremely hard to let go of his ex. They didn't date for long but she had a good h... (322 words)

Should I trust him this time? I still feel he may go away again, off the radar.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age - There was a problem with a question I posted about a guy I met online who I subsequently had over 100 conversations with over 35 days, he got really sick, we never met and he fell off the radar screen. He called me a few days ago, is doing better and in a research... (125 words)

Do I just stop talking to him or keep waiting ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, i'm so confused about a guy right now. I don't know what to do. anyway i started talking to this guy a while ago and we started talking everyday back in september. we have hung out, i've stayed at his house twice the second time i stayed with him we had sex. ... (135 words)

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

29 November 2015 (M)

age - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on the phone, and we have s... (171 words)

He is getting annoyed at me, and more frequently. What can I say or do to address this issue with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 20 year old student and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. We get along really well, and share a lot of the same interests, so it's never hard to find something to do together. I'm very very much in love with him, just as he is with me, but lat... (482 words)

I know I need to end with my child's father first but do you think my ex is right to be holding back contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in what does not feel like a relationship since 1999. Looking back he was great dad to by older kids and the one we have but he did not move things on with me. We never lived together, he never bought me presents or remembered my birthday. Never took me out. I ... (319 words)

We have a big decision ahead of us and he's not willing to discuss it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in medical school and my boyfriend and I (I'm 25, he's 24, dating for 2+ years) have a process we are going through next year called "the match". We each basically have to match to a city and specialty and it involves this complicated algorithm. I will probably end up ... (427 words)

How can I find that determination to just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3269 days ago

29 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I find the determination to leave my current boyfriend? I've been putting a lot of thought into this relationship and I don't see a future with the person my boyfriend is. He is in his 30's, still lives at home with his parents, lacks a stable job or a job period, ... (246 words)

What does she mean when she says "we are dating"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

28 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Been seeing a woman for three months, she says we are dating, so what does that really mean, I told her am not seeing any one else, can that mean we can see others, I don't want to, but I don't know if she is, she says she isn't, but I don't know for sure,we live in the same ... (87 words)

My friends are driving me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) age 22-25 - My friends are really beginning to annoy me but they're the only friends I have (I mean, people who hang out with me outside school that my parents aprove of). Lisa is the worst. I'll be going somewhere with her and she'll be driving because she has a car but she'll tell me ... (698 words)

How do I keep my college-age daughter from falling away from our church and family?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a proud mother of six children from the ages of 27-10. I am a stay-at-home mom and part-time Sunday School teacher and I volunteer for many church activities as do all members of our family. All of our children attended or attend our small church school and we were ... (1538 words)

We're back together but he seems preoccupied with his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Is my boyfriend strange? The ex-bf and I got together during the summer then in July he wanted to get back together to which I resisted for a couple of months as I was pretty happy being alone. He didn't try to impress me by recognizing my birthday in August. Then in September... (373 words)

My boyfriend doesn't hug or kiss me in front of his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been dating my BF for 9 months now. We are spending Thanksgiving at his mom's with his family. We are staying for the whole weekend because it's his birthday too. I am not sure why but I feel as he has been distance. He doesn't kiss me or hug me as usual in... (131 words)

He's been having long private secret lunches with drinks with a co-worker! Is this forgivable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me. My husband has been having private lunches with a woman 10 years younger than him. The lunches turn I to four hours with drinks and no other coworkers are included. He has been doing this for four years and kept it a secret. We have been married 19 years and ... (110 words)

It's as if I'm helpless to stop these feelings of anger and hurt, a year on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - A year ago I was cut off and wronged by a couple of people I thought were my friends. Two of us were both seeing the same guy - unknown to each other - but I obviously was being used by him and got in the way of the other girl and was cut off and dropped by them both. ... (172 words)

I broke "no contact" after 6 months with my ex-girlfriend, and I'm very confused by her response!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with my girlfriend for almost a year, we had some really great times together and as many relationships do, some trying times as well. The last month of the relationship was really odd after she got back from out of town visiting family. We decided to split up. I le... (276 words)

I don't know whether my partner is tired of me or is having health issues and is depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (M)

age - my partner and i have been together 2 and half years.she is seperated for 8 years i am single after a 30 yr relationship.we are both in our mid 50,s and have seperate homes 40 m apart.our life rogether has been wonderful upto 3 months ago.previos to that i wad living with my ... (209 words)

Pay back my friend and have job security? Or go for my dream career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear friends, I need some advice on what to do. When I graduated, the career I had wanted was out of reach because there were no job openings. I was barely able to keep myself afloat participating as a subject in medical experiments and working night shifts at a hotel. A fa... (448 words)

My work has partnered with wife a terrible driving woman. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, A few months ago the company I work for provided a "share drive scheme" What They do is buddy you up with another person in the workplace (they base this on who lives the closest together) and they provide you with a company car - which you take in turns (1 week ea... (574 words)

Do I give my date a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy in his 40s for a drink on Thursday after chatting for two days. The evening went well and I wasnt sure if the chemistry was right but he seemee lokeca good guy. I agreed to meet him Sunday. That night he text he was coming off the dating site to give us a chance. ... (232 words)

I'm more in love than her should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I Love my wife very much but she does not love me like I love her. She says she may never love me that way again. Should I just walk away? It hurts to love someone who won't love the same.... (41 words)

Did I go too far and say the wrong thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So my crush and I were texting during the black friday sale and I told him I was shopping that's why I havent been able to reply. Then he was like "What'd you get me? ??" (im not sure if emojis show on this site but he put a smug emoji after his question) then I felt a little ... (149 words)

I find his smell attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - There's someone that I really fancy, and I find their smell really attractive to the point that I can tell whether or not they're in a room just by their smell. Is this weird and does it mean anything?... (39 words)

Guy asked me out, but he has a female friend who worries me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

27 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Met this guy recently and he seems to have a major thing for me and recently told me he liked me. His friends say I am his "type" physically and he is always giving me compliments etc. I told him Id think it over and to give me time. He is not my usual type (I like geeks) but ... (455 words)

He admitted that he only knows two girls who are 'hotter' than I am and they'll be at an upcoming party

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

27 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, When my boyfriend and I first started dating we were going to a party and I said as a joke "there are probably going to be really hot girls there" because he is very involved in sports so a lot of the girls that are in his friend group are very fit. He replied ... (348 words)

I'm 67, she's 54 and she thinks I'm too old for her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

27 November 2015 (M)

age - I am 67 year old man, widowed and I have met a 54 year old lady but she thinks I am to old for her. We have gone out several times and I feel like I am in love with her. But she thinks that I am too old for a relationship with a woman her age. How can I persuade her that I ... (77 words)