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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have recently come out as bisexual. Any advice on dealing with homophobic family members with ingrained prejudices, some micro aggression and some homophobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently come out to myself and close friends as Bisexual but I haven't to my family. They are not outwardly homophobic but are generally full of micro-agressions and ingrained prejudices. My grandparents are super homophobic and would probably never speak to me agai... (59 words)

If I was as happy as I thought, would I be wondering all about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I really hope someone can help me to understand why im feeling like this. I had a pretty bad relationship a couple of years ago, we started off as friends and things got off to a great start and were pretty perfect for the first year but then something changed and we argued n... (483 words)

Did I ruin the friendship? I'm in love with my male best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - To cut a long story short, I'm in love with my male best friend. We've known each other 8 years and were close.. I came onto him a few weeks ago and we ended up having sex and now all these feelings have suddenly come from nowhere. We used to text all the time we had so m... (122 words)

New baby, but he will not lift a finger to help in any way. What can I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend 3 years we had a bavy girl 10 months ago I have now realised how lazy my boyfriend is he does nothing to help me with our daughter even after a emergency c section I have done everything I clean the house I cook I go shopping and ... (177 words)

Why is he choosing to treat me with less fairness than he shows to the rest of the staff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I started working at a car dealership, in their admin team 14 months ago. From day 1 the sales manager took an instant dislike to me and I don't know why.... If I would ever say "morning" to him he'd reply with a grunt, when he'd co... (676 words)

He thinks I should be flattered by his remarks, which I find hurtful. How should I respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really upset about what my boyfriend has said and I'd like some opinions about whether I'm overreacting or not. I met my boyfriend on plenty of fish. For some reason he thought it would be a good idea telling me who else was talking to him when we started getting to know ... (408 words)

Am I reading too much into this?? Should I just back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Have a question, for the lady's, been seeing a woman over two month's, seeing each other once a week, it's really good, feel's great. I know she has family an friends, needs her alone time, but girl's if you really like a guy, are you content, with only once a week,I know I h... (176 words)

I don't want my being a virgin to put him off

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and haven't had much luck with men, I always seem to fall for the wrong guy and I guess I just haven't met Mr Right. I've been on tinder for about 18 months, been on about 6 dates and have had mixed feelings about them all. I have finally met someone who seems like a ... (197 words)

I've come to the conclusion I'm just not interested in my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to break up with my two-month-old boyfriend because I realised I do not like him the way I thought I did. He was diagnosed TB a week ago and was checked into the hospital. I didn't want to visit him at all not because I was afraid I'd catch the disease but I really ... (304 words)

I'm worried he'll blab to others about what we did

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been seeing this guy for about a month, but he has only been my boyfriend for a week. Yesterday I let him go down on me, there was no pressure he asked and I said yes. He has said he won't tell anyone but I worry that when he gets drunk he will tell people. Because ... (97 words)

We've been chatting for a week and now he says I'm 'the one'

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - For the last week I have started chatting to this man online and to put it mildly it has been so intense.We have so much in common and we chat for hours everyday and it's been really nice. He has rung me on the phone and said he was very drawn to me and he wanted to meet me ... (147 words)

What did my friend mean by this question?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, looking for sum advice, My male friend who I have known since we was 16. In the past week his wife had kicked him out, any cut a long story short, I offered him my spare bed untill things got bk on track (I try help friends much as poss), Anyway he msg me a few minutes ... (159 words)

My man is 22 yrs old and very fit. So why can he only last one round? what needs to be done?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3277 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - 2 issues: One that I stopped moaning during sex and the second that my healthy man only lasts one round at a time. When we first met and had sex, this was exciting and new and sensuous for me. I would moan and thrash around and be involved much more than I am now. He said h... (186 words)

Just how serious is he about our relationship? Or am I reading too much into these Thanksgiving "complications"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

22 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We are going at a good pace. We live 50 minutes apart so we see each other here and there. I have met his parents, sibling, a set of grandparents, and even neighbors. With thanksgiving com... (150 words)