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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: So my crush and I were texting during the black friday sale and I told him I was shopping that's why I havent been able to reply. Then he was like "What'd you get me? ??" (im not sure if emojis show on this site but he put a smug emoji after his question) then I felt a little playful so i was like, "Actually I got a couple of cute undies if those count. ?? lol jk ??" I told my bff about and she said I shouldnt have said it which got me worried. My crush and i havent gone out on a date or anything like that. We've just been talking over text for a lil over a month now. Was I too aggressive?? Did I sound like a slut?! Im 21, he's 19. What do u think he thinks of me now saying this??
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (28 November 2015):
Yes, it wasn't the best thing to say. If I got a text like that from someone from the opposite sex when I don't know that person well enough, I would think that they're crossing a line.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 November 2015):
Eh, it might not have been the most "cool" think to say, but I wouldn't sweat it.
Did you sound like s slut? nah..
Relax. If he can't handle a little bit of a joke... then he isn't worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2015): Well, depending on the guy, he might try to get in your pants on your 1st date since you said that... But I wouldn't worry too much about what you texted him! If he's a nice guy then what you said is no big deal.
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