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It's as if I'm helpless to stop these feelings of anger and hurt, a year on!

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Question - (28 November 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2015)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

A year ago I was cut off and wronged by a couple of people I thought were my friends. Two of us were both seeing the same guy - unknown to each other - but I obviously was being used by him and got in the way of the other girl and was cut off and dropped by them both.

They both treated me badly and lied to me, so I moved on the best I could - but I can't help feeling angry that I was treated like this in the first place.

We have no contact with each other and I am pleased about that as looking back neither of them were nice people - but a year on I am reminded of how they have treated me. How do I stop these feelings of anger and hurt. It's as if I am helpless that nothing can be done about it.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (29 November 2015):

Denizen agony auntYour anger is justified. Just don't let it eat you up. They aren't worth it. There is a saying: If you lend a friend £20 and never see them again it is probably worth it.

You have uncovered two false friends one of whom is a two timer. Count yourself lucky you found out sooner rather than later.

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