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How do I know what this guy's intentions are?

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Question - (29 November 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2015)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Last night wedding. I met a guy he was on the table infront of me. I felt attracted to him but the first time he asked me to dance i said maybe in a bit. I tend to be a bit guarded. Another guy asked me and i turned him down because the other guy already had my attention, he was eyeing me the whole time so he came back a little after i had said no to that guy already and his friend danced with my friend i danced with him while on the dance floor he told me to ask my friend if we'd like to go to his hotel after to hang with them i said no. So we danced and he asked for my info and so on. So then my friend i kept dancing and i needed air so we went outside he was want to go on a ride get some air again i said no im fine. I then had to head home. So i didnt give him my number i just added him on facebook last night. Hes messaged me right away last night and requested my phone number my concern is should i talk to him ? I mean he invited to his hotel right away im not that type of girl. How do i know what his intentions are?

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A male reader, Roboaxe United States +, writes (30 November 2015):

Roboaxe agony auntAs a fellow guy, I too would've asked a girl I'm interested in seeing to my hotel room if I were at a wedding.

But that doesn't mean he is only after sex. Give him a shot if you like him, and if he pushes for sex after one date, then you have your answer.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (29 November 2015):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf he keeps asking you to hotel rooms or his place and doesn't take you out, assume he's after sex only.

If you found him attractive enough to ignore other guys and not dance with them then why not give him a chance to prove himself?

How do you know what his intentions are? See what he suggests for getting together. No worries. Just be patient and you'll be able to figure it out.

Good luck!

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