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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Marriage problems and cheating and now I am torn between two options. How can this be resolved?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an affair starting July 2014 got caught Feb 2015 Admitted affair to my husband of 26yrs. We talked and I decided I would move in with other man. But he made me wait until Mar 2015 so it was awful for my husband with me in the home until then. I have been living with... (218 words)

I can’t see myself with anyone else. But I need to move on. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Where to start? 40+ years old. Married for 18 years. During my marriage there were a few strings of infidelity. A lot of my family in and out of the house. We took care of a lot of people but never was able to focus on us. I know this and I do believe this played ... (531 words)

I know I must move on. We tried FWB after we broke up. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Essentially we dated a bit a few years ago, but for 2 and 1/2 years he and I were FWB. I cant say for sure but I know we were both in love but too scared to say anything. Also I'm an Asian girl and he is Jewish guy, were both nerdy and lost our Virginity to each other (s... (1052 words)

What options are possible to spice up things with my fiance? Sex has become too predictable.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! I am here looking for some suggestions regarding how to spice things up between me and my fiance. It's been a long time with each other and sex often gets predictable. And at times, he doesn't give much effort to turn me on well like he did before. I've talk... (115 words)

My Bf was in bed with another man. I'm distraught. What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months now and it's been great he's so caring our sex life is amazing and we really seem to click. But this came crashing down at the weekend, I came back from a girls holiday and found him underneath his best friend in our bed! There was... (101 words)

Did I start this blind date off on the wrong foot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - A friend of a friend gave me the email address of a very interesting woman and suggested that I contact her. We haven't met before but she indicated that she'd like me contact her. Being a little nervous and not wanting to overthink it, I wrote her a brief email introducin... (261 words)

How do you french kiss??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts, this gonna be weird but am gonna ask it anyway... How do you french kiss???... (25 words)

I had an extra marital affair and am wondering if I should go and see him or whether I'm becoming a stalker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Extra marital affair (both married)- he broke up after 5+ years for the right reasons to be with his family and what we had right now is not enough. The love is pure there is no doubt. It's been a tortourous month..I messaged him for his last picture in which I could see his ... (95 words)

I think my summer fling from Norway has an ulterior motive in wanting to meet up again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I hooked up with a foreign girl whilst on holiday last summer and she's just messaged me saying she wants to meet up again. But I'm slightly wary of her. I'm 22. Me and a group of friends went on a lads holiday to Sunny Beach in Bulgaria back in July. Everything you h... (311 words)

I've had feelings of jealousy ever since that she's had this great life up until now and I was largely miserable during that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for two years and it's been great overall, although we can have the odd argument like any healthy relationship. The only thing that bugs me is when I look at my past compared to hers. Initially when we first met I was a bit apprehen... (352 words)

My husband just left after bad mouthing me to our children. Any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband just left after bad mouthing me to our children. Ive been unwell for almost 3 weeks.. my cough has turned into bronchitis. Ive been feeling horribly miserable. When i first started out with the cough, i was still working out and excersizing, but stopped after i ... (220 words)

As a male inexperienced virgin who feels socially awkward - Should I pay a sex worker to have sex with me for my first time?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm a male virgin who's never even kissed a girl nor have I been on a date or had a girlfriend. I'm not particularly good looking and I'm very socially awkward. I figure having no clue about the opposite sex would be a massive turn off. Since women would want a gu... (94 words)

Are there any better ways we could reorganize out working life? My Gf seems stressed by it all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - What's going on? My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. When we first got together we were living with my mother and moved out in about 1 year. April will make 2 years at our new place. We live in a small town with very few jobs and the companies w... (770 words)

Does it indicate that he does not care enough? Considering that he's NEVER jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is never insecure and never ever gets jealous. EVER! I know this isn't a problem and should be a good thing but sometimes I feel like maybe he just doesn't care enough to get jealous, what do you think? He seems super confident and secure about pretty much ever... (55 words)

Are my fears reasonable? Is my Bf, who is divorced, just too close to his ex and her parents, still? And why should I be a secret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i really need an opinion from you guys. I'm 43 my bf is 50. i'm widow and he is divorced. We are now 5 months in relationship. We are not living together cos our place are 3 hours far distance, but we are always seeing each other, sometimes im staying in his house for a we... (499 words)

Can you suggest for me a good way to go forward, so that this situation here gets little easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am in a middle of a triangle love which is a deep one. I can't decide what should I do now. I love a girl, who is of my age. Some unfortunate things happened with her 5 years ago. When she was 15, she was committed to a relationship with one of her classmates, and ... (384 words)

Girls, question, are these red flags? Am I coming on too strong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age - Girls, question, are these red flags? Four dates so far, I think everything is going great, she doesn't say she misses me, loves to be with me, tells me not to fall to fast, tells me , I can go out with other women. She does tell me she likes seeing me,am very romantic, I don't ... (145 words)

What are my options? My husband has been calling me horrible names and acting like an jerk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Tonight my husband called me a "f^^^ing lazy c^^t" , says i never want to do anything, and that he was going downstairs, sleeping downstairs and moving downstairs for good. I told him he cannot speak to me that way and if he wants to live downstairs he can just move out... (272 words)

The necklace... Should I break up with her? Will remaining with her only bring me misery?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with her for over 4 years. For the first birthday she had during our relationship, I got her a gold necklace with a heart on it, half white gold in the back and gold in the front. She really loved it! For her following birthdays, I bought her gifts other than... (616 words)

Considering our strong connection why she doesn't break up with him? Is this girl worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So i met this girl at school through one of my ex girlfriend's friends. We ended up exhanching numbers at one point, we would text often and have lunch as a group at school. We got to know each other over the course of a month and came to learn we want the same thing out of a... (247 words)

He and I are both virgins. When we have our first date should it be a lip lock kiss or a french kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

3 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, I am chatting with a guy online. He is from my country but is working in another country at the moment. He is a christian virgin and so am I. We have shown interest in each other and are willing to take a step further into Dating. He plans to come home next ... (151 words)