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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I do want you, I don't want you - is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel at cross roads in my relationship. I have been seeing and older woman for two years. We had a rocky start due to her constant lies over her spending time with her ex which resulted in lack of trust on my behalf still even now. I have always been honest and put her first ... (366 words)

Feeling insecure about the future of me and my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, its usually me giving the advice, but now I need some. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we did get in to a relationship rather quick, but I don't regret any of it. He really does make me feel special and does take care of me. but as a woman, I have ... (436 words)

Friend says I make him uncomfortable after he buys me a present

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

25 November 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Cupids, I've had a situation recently with one of my now former friends that you might be able to help me with. Last year I got to know a guy called Oscar, for whatever reason when I first met him I didn't think we would get on. I was friends with a guy called Jay wh... (627 words)

Is it just sex, or does he want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3283 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to work with this guy over a year ago we got on great but he had a girlfriend. I met him out on Halloween night and we ended up kissing. We were both quite drunk but he did say he had always fancied me and now he's single. Since then we've been talking pretty much all ... (289 words)

He can't make up his mind if he wants a relationship with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we split about 2 weeks ago. For both of us this was the first significant relationship we'd been in. When we first got together everything was going great apart from the sex side of things. I hadn't been intimate with an... (758 words)

Is he a complete flake or are all men like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - About 6 months ago I started talking to this guy on a dating site. I initially rejected him because he was much younger than me (9 years) but I thought he was attractive and agreed to have coffee. He was so flaky that we actually were never able to find a time that worked and ... (377 words)

The father rejected our son, and his mother isn't interested either

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3281 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I have a problem. Yesterday i went shopping with my son who is 4 years old, i saw my son grandma which is his dads mother for the first time. I approached her because i recognise her from Facebook. I told her who I was and she asked me if I went to the same school ... (254 words)

He speaks to his ex differently when I'm not around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3283 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 5 year old son together. He was married and has 2 boys with her but was divorced about 3 years before we started dating. She calls him every sometimes about the boys and sometimes not. He seems to not like that she ... (188 words)

A 10-year friendship ended for no good reason

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible for a friendship that lasted over 10years to suddenly end for no particular reason? Not really sure what I'm asking here just wondered if anyone else has experienced the same? Can shed any wisdom for me? I'm talking about a best friend someone who you lived close ... (453 words)

Trying to start over as friends with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So my ex and i have dated on and off for a while now.. We decided lets try and give it one last chance but before then, we need to start completely over as friends, but lately whenever we start to talk i feel aggervated and annoyed. Its like talking to him just makes me angry ... (106 words)

I don't like how I'm behaving with these guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3281 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 18. I am introvert. I have insecurities about my social standards, my looks, my family. I keep recollecting my bitter childhood. I am in a long distant relationship for almost a year. We never dated 'til now. And we fight a lot. I really love him. This is my first love. ... (238 words)

Tips/Advice on moving in with your significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Any tips you guys can give me about moving in with your significant other? I am going to be moving relatively soon with my bf, and I never have done that before. He has in the past when he was younger. He is 26 and I'm 22. But he told me it wasnt anything serious since he... (122 words)

Mixed messages and conflicting signs

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is a bit long. I have had a massive crush on a colleague for almost a year now (he is 30yrs, I am 27yrs). Our roles do not conflict or overlap, and neither one of us is in a position of authority over the other. Some of my closer friends at work knew about it, b... (841 words)

How can I prove that I have long term potential and that we could become a long term relationship, without scaring her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3283 days ago

25 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this may sound like I'm fighting a losing battle, but I would love some advice. The other night I had a one night stand with my first ever girlfriend who I broke up with 10 years ago. She is incredibly loyal, lovely with a big heart, sometimes gets anxious, and some... (526 words)

Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come, and he normally comes easi... (201 words)

How much more can my heart take? Tired of being Mr Nice and getting no where.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

25 November 2015 (M)

age - I tried again, am done being the nice guy, romantic, sweet talker, opening car doors ,poems,I've tried, an tried again, woman say they want to meet a good guy, well I've had it, am not going to be a bad boy, just don't give all I got. So ladies , can I meet, an hold on to a... (83 words)