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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to break out of this rut and seek a better life and I have no idea how to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Husband is a sales man. Goes out at least once or twice a week at 630am gets back well after 6pm. Other days it could be 8am or 830am he goes out gets back around 515pm. i wonder how he does it going out at 630am like he will be tomorrow, said he as a sales meeting so he as ... (383 words)

The silence is killing me! Why did he stop responding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm desperate for closure. Wel..I met a guy on a massaging app.initially I wasn't that attracted to him. He somehow managed to charm his way to my heart! He would initiate most of our texting and all I did was just answer. He made me believe he was so into me after a couple of ... (228 words)

I can look past the religious stuff to give it a shot with him, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - We got coffee, the next day he said we couldn't be more than friends cause I'm not is religion. We kept hanging out as friends, but he kept flirting and taking me out. Then he came over one night, we watched tv and talked a bunch, eventually he started hugging me, by this point ... (193 words)

In dating, I don't want to be wasting my time if he's not interested! Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Advice please- I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now and he used to reply straight away and now he waits days and says sorry he's been really busy. I really like him, I assume he likes me and wants to carry on seeing each other, but how do I find this out? I t... (119 words)

Is it wrong to have deal breakers in relationships?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My Boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Recently we talked about deal breakers. Both of us agreed cheating is a deal breaker. Then I told him if he ever took drugs at a party it'd be a deal breaker for me. I did not know he used to do drugs until sometime into the ... (218 words)

I'm feeling last priority with my fiance and his relationship with his kids

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3290 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Need advice on slippery slope of feeling like the last priority. Nutshell: Fiance and I recently moved in together after being LDR for about 2.5 years. Fiance has 2 daughters, I have a son. Prior to the move, Fiance had daughters every other day and every other weekend (f... (358 words)

Do I stay with a depressed man who hides our relationship from his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and I honestly thought he was the love of my life up until he started treating me differently. He was the kindest, gentlest man who would love me dearly every day. Around 6 months ago he started acting strange, not answering my phone... (301 words)

I'm sick of the "let's try" excuse because nothing changes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - currently my relationship seems to be at a standstill. i have been with my boyfriend for over two years now. we live together along with other flat mates that are his friends. also i am 24 and he is 30. we met in work and worked similar shifts which was great as we got to s... (996 words)

We had a misunderstanding, I ignored her and now have I lost her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3291 days ago

9 November 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with 'this girl' for like 4-5 months now and all was well 'till we had misunderstandings. I decided to ignore her as a risk to increase her interest levels; for that she got hurt (my sistake - I know)... She has blocked my number, I assume she does not want to talk ... (106 words)

I have trust issues and I believe my husband doesn't tell me things but now a co-worker is coming between us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I should start by laying out some of the facts- Fact one: My husband and I have been together for ten years. Fact two: I believe without hesitation that he loves me. Fact three: I have some pretty deep rooted trust issues. I have done some things I am not proud of, mos... (911 words)

Any advice on how to get over a devastating break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me a few weeks ago because he is no longer in love with me and told me he wants to move on and do different things in life. I've been very devastated as I feel the complete opposite and I'm still in love with him. I know I have t... (122 words)

Am I horribly inconsiderate for not being ready when my bf expects me to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, we have more problems than this in our relationship and maybe it's doomed but I'd just like to get some outside perspective on this one issue. This has happened two or more times already, two times recently. One early evening he drove an hour to get me to go out to eat, and ... (551 words)

My best friend is beginning to annoy me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello Thank you for taking time to read this, This question is a about a friendship nor a relationship but it's very important so I decided to ask. So let me cut to the chase and tell you my problem. I have a friend who's been my best friend for about 5 years or so. We ... (528 words)

I told my crush how I felt about her and she replied 'so cute'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

9 November 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I sent my crush a long paragraph saying that I liked her and stuff and all she responded was "So Cute" with a bunch of Heart of emojis... what does this mean??? ... (33 words)

I'm worried my boyfriend no longer fancies me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been with my boyfriend over 2 years. Our sex life used to be great, every day at least its gradually reduced and is now at appauling once every 10 days ish. Weve talked it over many times, he says i should initiate it more if i want it more but he would always initiate... (163 words)

I'm desperate for women to notice me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

9 November 2015 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 22 year old virgin and have spent years trying to make myself attractive enough to be able to have sex. Ive transformed the way I look, started going to school parties,even started drinking at them even though I dont like alcohol. Im not what girls think of w... (429 words)

Is there any hope for us, despite how badly he's treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My name is Kate,I'm 42 and my husband,Stuart is 31 .We've been married for 8 years now but we've been a couple for 13. We don't have kids because he never wanted any.Our relationship has always been difficult due to our age gap as well as our different personalities. We've ... (956 words)

If this is a trust issue what can I do to help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

9 November 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear all I met a girl recently and for 3 weeks we got along so well, flirting, she wanted to talk every day, know everything about me and spend time together. we were getting closer and closer and suddenly she pulled away. stopped replying to me and became a little distant. ... (316 words)

Is it inappropriate to wear sleeveless to interviews? (I am the interviewer)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

9 November 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got promoted to a role that required me to conduct interviews. My company is on a hiring spree lately so am busy interviewing several candidates daily. Where I work, it is very hot. Most people wear light and comfortable clothing to the office, myself included. Most ... (129 words)