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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend latey thinks i am hiding something because i dont let him go through my phone. He has done it for most of our relationship, lookig at photos and even messages. I Dont have anything hide. But Lately i have stopped him going through myPhone more than i used to. Ive told him countless times why so it wasnt just all of a sudden but he throws a tantrum and givea me the silent treatment. If he asks, fine. But when i leave the room for a second and come back in, there he is going throwMy phone. He waits until i leave the room. Whats the best way to handle this? He had given me the silent treatment for the last day because i took my phone back off him! He knows my password to get into myPhone but i know if u enter it more than 10 times wrong it locks it or something. I think he would do that on purpose and find it funny. I do not know his phone password and wen he enters it he makes sure his screen is hidden. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2013): Keep your phone in your pocket, if you have a jacket or pants with pockets in them, and refuse to take the phone out. Or, leave your phone in someone elses house, such as a friend's house or family members house, when your boyfriend comes to your house, or leave it in someone's house when you go out somewhere with your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2013): "Boyfriend looks through my phone. How to make it stop?"
Make him your ex-boyfriend.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 October 2013):
 And you haven't changed your password? Or asked him WHY he feel he has any need and/or right to go through your phone? Do you go though his?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2013): This is the OP.
I have told him no. Again and again. I take the phome from him. Soon as i leave the room he picks it up. He doesnt listen when i say no!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 October 2013):
Ask for his phone, so you can go though his while he goes through yours, wanna bet it stops being so fun for him?
It is distrustful and controlling of him and why you accept it is beyond me. Put a new password on it. Or just grow a set and tell him no.
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