A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This girl I like now "used" to like me, I'm not sure if she still does or not, but she gives off the signs she does, and is interested in me still (possibly), but every time I ask her if she wants to come over, or go out to see a movie/eat sometime, she seems really interested, she gives me dates and times when to pick her up. But then all of a sudden, that day, she ignores me all day, or just comes up with an excuse. I don't really know whats going on, I call, text, message her on Facebook, and she doesn't even reply to me, or she just gives me some excuse. We're both 20, and she lives with her parents. I guess they are very strict, but she doesn't talk about them like they are. We've successfully went out 2 times, and that was about it. I met her father, and he seemed like a nice guy, but I guess I could be wrong. What do you guys think I should do? She's done it to me quite a lot actually, about 6-7 times now, and i'm kind of getting agitated with her, most of the time she apologized to me, and says she really wanted to go, but in the most recent times she kind of just plays it off like it never happened. I really do like her, but shes starting to get on my nerves.
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (27 October 2013):
 Considering she has never given you any reasonable excuses as to why she has cancelled these dates at the last moment and she ignores you in the lead up to each date, I think she's being very rude and I can't understand why you're still bothering.
I would put this one down to experience and move forward with your life.
She's messing you about and that's very unfair.
She clearly has issues so I suggest you give up.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, CMMP +, writes (27 October 2013):
Move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 October 2013):
 Nope it's not her parents no letting her go, he just doesn't know how to say:" no, thanks I'm not really interested" without hurting your feelings. She thinks it easier to say yes and then cancel. That way she feels she isn't being rude, except she doesn't GET that she is stringing you along.
Look for someone else to date.
Stop trying with her.
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