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male
age
26-29,
*asualElitist
writes:So, I've been talking to this girl since late July, and I have no idea what to do. We both have emotional concerns, and I care about her a lot, and like her quite a bit. However, we've only seen each other in person a few times, despite texting back and forth quite a lot, which has tapered off a bit since school is back in session. For a while, I thought she was humouring me and was secretly annoyed by me or disliked me, but I've been able to put that behind me after realizing that it's been long enough that she'd probably just ignore me if that were the case.The problem is that when we're just talking, everything is fine, but now, whenever I suggest we hang out together, it's a conversation killer. The weird thing is that I've been rather sentimental towards her (for instance, I've told her that I've never felt the way I do about her, as well as calling her beautiful), which she usually responds to be calling me sweet, although in September she called me "one of the most amazing people [she] knows". Also, she'll text me when she's feeling down, most recently being Thursday night. I just don't know what to do, as I don't think she's the type to use someone, but that's how I feel, and while I would like to keep her in my life, I'm honestly considering just cutting off contact with her, as this cycle has gotten incredibly tedious. If you would like clarification or more information please let me know. Thanks for your help.
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reader, Ladyhopeful  +, writes (27 October 2013):
I agree with R1.
She likes your attention, and compliments, but doesn't seem to want to take it any further than friendship.
You could always ask her straight, if she has feelings for you more than friends....then depending on her answer, go from there.
I hope things work out for you!!
Good luck.
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reader, R1 +, writes (27 October 2013):
 It sounds like she considers you a friend but is maybe being cautious because she is worried you are attracted to her. Are you happy with just being friends? If not you should do the right thing and back away.
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