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writes:So for a while now I've been going to this smoothie place every sunday since its the only day I really have time to relax. Theres this oncredibly cute girl there who all of a sudden started giving me huge discounts on all my drinks. When I try n talk to her she gets nervous and blushes, but always really friendly with a great smile, which leads me to believe she likes me. Not to sound narcisistic, but I'm a decently attractive guy, so I wouldn't be surprised if shes attracted to me. The only thing is, I'm sort of introverted and I'm not too good at talking to people, especially girls I'm interested in. I want to ask her for her number but there's always a line of people behind me. Would it be a good idea to discreetly leave her my number on a piece of paper or a bill I give her? I can tell she's into me by the way she smiles and gets all nervous and blushy when we talk, but like I said I'm pretty bad as far as verbal communication goes. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sara_the_Slytherin +, writes (23 October 2013):
 You just have to get up your courage sometimes in order to really change your luck for the better. We all get awkward and goofy when we like someone.
It sounds like she likes you a lot but be one of those girls who believe it's the guy's job to make the first move. You like her, but I think it would be a good idea to get to know her. Go to the shop at a time when there aren't too many customers. I think that, instead of leaving her your number, you should find SOMETHING to start a conversation about. Get to know her and then exchange numbers.
Good luck. ;)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2013):
 sounds like she likes you....
but i think slipping her your number is a bad idea.
If you can't muster the ability to talk to her in line while she's busy how about waiting till the shop clears out then talking to her....
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