A
male
age
30-35,
*rico
writes: There is a girl i've feelings for a long time we've been friends. We do chat well and have nice times together. She laughs nearly to all my jokes. She confides in most of her life story. I decided to take this girl for a date. I ask her out and she accepted to go on a date with me. We had fun together and we discussed alot and we both complimented ourselves, and lastly we both took pictures for comemoration and she collected my pictures to herself even the ones i told her i don't fancy . I then reserved my feeling for another date.During the next weekend i ask her out again she agreed. This time around i decided to reveal my fee lings to her. After we had launch, i then told her i've something to confess to her. Just this statement of mine made her so eager to listen to me agitating as if she knew what i was about to tell her. Telling me not tn waste time and tell her or am i shy, "so she said". I told her no i aint shy. She even went further to demand what she'll do for me to tell her what i've in mind. She even playfully pulled off her wrist watch and wore it on my hands,funny as it was i told her how i feel about her that i care for her so much and i want her to be my girl. She was amazed and told me to be more spercific but i don't know how spercific i would've been so i maintained myself and she too kept calm for a moment and then told in case she says no how would i feel. I told her she's free to tell me anything and she replied no and i let it go that way. Nevertheless i still had it in mind that she has feelings for me. As days went by anytime i go shopping for myself i do buy a little stuffs like perfume,shoes,clothes and some other toiletries and anything for her wellbeing, call her to say to her how i miss her and always by her side to chat with her. A day again came by and i ask her for another date she acepted again. During which we discussed our vitals. She told me more of herself. Telling how her parents dictates to her who and who not to date and her declines to their wish. Telling me she wants a life of her own to be independent and self-employed. I told her i admired her aspirations. She kept on complimenting my appearance that am cute and she likes my hair style and the way i trim my bears, and that she likes my developed chest. Telling me things to do again for myself to make me look more attractive. She suddenly then ask me whether i do become jelous if i see talking to a guy or even picking guys calls, i responded yes. She then told me that she does feel bad when i do feel that way too. She ask me of my ex whether i told her about whether i still do love her, i replied no and then she said nothing else. We then later left. Please benevolent agony aunts i need your help and wisdom. Whether am taking the right step and whether indeed she does loves me as i anticipated. Thanks for your patience and cooperation.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 October 2013):
 by not taking calls while you are together she's being polite... does not mean she loves you.
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reader, erico +, writes (23 October 2013):
erico is verified as being by the original poster of the question Since our last date she no pick guys calls whe we're together.so i don't know if she's trying to prove her love for me. Plz dear agony aunts enlighten me more.thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2013):
after so few dates I doubt it's love... but it sounds like she likes you....
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