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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need some advice on what to do. My friend has recently told me shes a lesbian, I am too and she told me she already knew that. I could not tell if she had been flirting with me for the past few months, my chances are better now I know she is a lesbian after all! We are both single, we are both gay and we both have flirted done all the eye contact thing, compliments, laughs at each other all the time and get on well but I'm not sure what to do now. I have already asked her if it was if I found her hot and she said 'it didnt matter to her'. Do I ask her out? Just because shes gay doesnt mean shes fancies me though right? What sort of things are a 'come on' to ask her out on a date? Do people even still date anymore???
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (30 October 2013):
 I hope people still date!
I would go for it and if she isn't it to you, make sure she knows you still want to be friends and move on.
Good luck!
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reader, wildbellegilly +, writes (29 October 2013):
 You already know you like her and that she flirts with you. I f you really feel enough love for her, enough desire inside you, then go for it. Real love is so fantastic when it happens, but also its like quicksilver, like the sand that slips through your fingers and vanishes. Invite her out, have a nice meal, make sure you touch her as much as you can, fingers touching as you eat your meal, fingers touching as you clink glasses, your foot touching hers under the table, gauge her reaction, is her foot staying in touch with yours. Take her hand if you can, slide your index finger along the palm of her hand, if you relies in the same way the time for mere flirting is over, she will be saying "I want you." Take the chance then and kiss her softly tell her the magic words, "I love you." Good luck I am sure she is the woman for you. Gillian xx
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reader, R1 +, writes (23 October 2013):
 If you like her, ask her out!! There are no 100% signs that someone likes you, dating is a gamble. Take a risk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2013): yes people still date. dont be shy. just ask her if she wants to go out.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (22 October 2013):
 Just ask her out and/or tell her what you are feeling. At least you`ll know where you stand, one way or the other. By what you are saying about the flirting, it sounds quite mutual anyway.
There`s only one way to find out.
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