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writes:Okay here is the deal with me and this girl that i have very strong feelings for, we have been talking for a few weeks, she invited me to stay the weekend with her, i did and we got drunk had amazing sex one night and then the next night, she then proceded to tell me that she was just using me to get over her ex boyfriend, the next day she goes and spends time with him, says it was only 30 minutes and all they did was talk, im with her because i like her alot and want to remain friends but i also want to be with her, im confused dont know what to think anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2013): She told you the truth up front. She was using you and she's not over her boyfriend.
Don't get too attached to her, my friend. It hasn't been that long that you've known her. Let go while it's not too hard.
She will never love you. Don't pretend being friends is enough. You know it isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2013): Why in the world would you want to be with her or even be friends with her? She not only used you as rebound but she was pretty blunt when she told you about it. How insensitive!
I'm sorry, but she sounds like she wants to keep you as a friend, but she wants to sleep with you when the urge strikes. I know it'll be hard to stop thinking of her, but it's definitely best if you don't have any contact at all. At least from what I read.
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