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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well ok me once again. There's this girl and me and her was pretty cool with each other, but we didn't really talk to each other, but we didn't have no problems either. Until one day I guess she got mad because I was talking to a dude she once liked, and I guess she still does, so now she doesn't like me anymore. I don't really care if she does or doesn't cause we really didn't talk like that and she has a boyfriend anyways so if you ask me she's being very childish for her age. So please just tell me what you think, am I wrong or not because I feel like I'm not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2013): If she's not your friend, and you don't really talk, and you're talking to someone she USED TO like?
I would say you're not in the wrong. If you were best friends, and she was not seeing someone else already...that would be different. But you're only acquaintances.
If she has another boyfriend anyways, why would she care?
In your age range, there is a lot of competitiveness for boys; and a certain alpha female trait is just starting to emerge.
She's just being envious, and trying to establish that he's part of her "territory." Which is ridiculous if she has a boyfriend already.
Don't let her scare you off, or intimidate you.
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