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Don't want to lose her as a friend but she has inappropriate feelings for me

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Question - (24 November 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2013)
A male India age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear friends,

I have a female friend at workplace (younger and single). These days I felt she has an interest to me thou she know I am married and have 2 kids. I have shown her my family photo too.

As things proceeded I understood things are serious and she has it in her mind strong. I kept a distance and we don't involve much.

These days she quite avoids me and I feel so sad. I just wanted no romance. Otherwise she is a nice trustworthy friend. I cannt lose it.

What can be done.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2013):

I'm a sad guy. I will just take it as it is.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (24 November 2013):

Honeypie agony auntNothing you can do. Keep your distance, because SOMEONE has to be the logical and adult in this "friendship".

SHE CAN'T/WON'T just be a friend. So staying away is better. Just be polite. And maybe try and make friend with guys.. less drama.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (24 November 2013):

Anonymous 123 agony auntYou cant do anything; you wanted her to back off and she did. Let her have her own space and grieve if she wants. You cant have her as a friend till she wants to be your friend, till then, there's nothing you can do

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