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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok here's the situation. I’m 23 she's 22... we dated for about a year. I got caught up and did a bunch of stuff I shouldn't have (cheated, lying) and things got rocky. Trust was gone, she was hurt like hell and eventually we broke up. I did the typical bf thing and tried my hardest to win her back, to no avail. After several failed attempts to get our relationship back reality sets in and I quit trying. After about 8 months of no contact she randomly adds me back on twitter, fb, instagram etc. She asks for my new number then texts or calls sporadically. One night I get a text from her asking me to come to her best friend’s bday party, I decline because the wound is still fresh and I didn't feel like being sad all over again. About month later she calls and wants to meet up with me, I agree. We have a 2 hour convo about everything (why I cheated, problems in the relationship etc.) She goes on to say that she hasn't gotten into a relationship yet because she really wanted us to work, which is the same way I feel. A month later she continues to text sporadically and I try one last time to tell her I want her back, no response. I leave it alone and move on with my life, but the texting continues sporadically. A few days ago she wants to meet up again, I agree we met up and she gets really touchy feely. She says that I'm like a spider web and she just can't get away, we continue to talk until it gets late and I tell her to go. Then out of nowhere we start making out, I send her home again and now we’re here. Almost 3 years later and I’m still not over her, and at this point I'm just frustrated and confused, I have no clue what this girl wants from me or why she wants to keep in touch. I genuinely get sad when we don’t talk, and seeing her or talking every few months doesn’t help at all because I honestly care for her and would like to be with her. Do I continue to answer her sporadic texts/calls, or do I ignore her completely and move on? Is she just seeking attention from me? Does anyone have a clue about what her true intentions may be?Any help is very appreciated!
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (18 May 2013):
 you will never know her true intentions because shes throwing mixed signals.so i suggest you just wait and hear from her what she wants.let it not be a waste of time thou because if you feel shes playing games then you better stop thecommunications altogether and try move on without her.gud luck
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