A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HelloI would really like some advice about a crush i have that is getting a little out of hand.Last year my brother moved into a shared house full of men. I went to visit him when i met the most attractive man who owned the house, he shook my hand and i felt a chemistry between us, or maybe it was just me but he was so nice and well mannered.I couldn't stop thinking about him for a few weeks after meeting him and wouldn't dare to approach him with my brother still living in the house.A year later my brother moves out but i couldn't find the courage to knock the door and tell the landlord that i liked him. So stupidly i sent him a letter leaving my name i know he surely would not remember and my number. I post it through his letter box.He made no contact.His mum and bother also live in the house which is why i have not knocked the door to talk to him, i am so shy.How can i speak to this guy? I know his name and where he lives, that is all.I can't top thinking about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2013): You could friend him on Facebook. Introduce yourself.
Your brother doesn't live there anymore; so why are you afraid to ask him to introduce you?
It might be a good idea to ask your brother about him. He has lived there and knows something about the guy. That's to your advantage. Then you can find out if he is available, already has a girlfriend, or if he may be gay.
A brother who knows a guy you're interested in, is a good source for information. He can tell you things about him that might be important to know; or warn you if he's really a tool.
Use him!!!
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