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writes:I confessed to liking him and he told me he likes me back. He has tried asking me out, but since we're both busy with exams at the moment, we haven't really decided on when. What is he expecting from me? Does he expect us to be dating now or a relationship? ... Am I not allowed to flirt with other guys anymore? I've never been in a situation like this, so I have no clue what to do ... What should I do? Also, he said that the reason he likes me is because I'm cute, funny, have a good sense of humor and because i was brave enough to tell him. I'm worried that he only likes me because I liked him first ... Like he's just using me so that he'd have a girlfriend, you know ...? And he's asked me to buy him food, is it okay to do that or totally a pushover move if I do? He has offered to pay for movies though ...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (16 May 2013):
 It really doesn't matter what he EXPECTS from you.
You haven't even gone out on a date and you are already asking if you are "ALLOWED" to flirt with other guys?
DO NOT buy him food. If he pays for the movies, then you can pay for the meal. Seems fair to me.
DO NOT over think this. DO NOT be physical with him, DO NOT make promises.
IF you are both TOO busy for a DATE, what makes you think you wont' be too busy for a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013): You are not in committed relationship so go ahead and flirt. If something changes in the mean time you can change your course. Excuse me don't buy you don't have time to meet up and go on a date. I find it hard to believe you couldn't take fifteen or twenty minutes to meet up for a coffee or tea some where.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 May 2013):
 Don't buy him a thing until you have an established relationship. And go ahead a flirt if you feel like it, it's not like you are committed at this point in time.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (16 May 2013):
 If you like him be in a relationship Thats what he wants if he doesnt want you flirting with other men If he flirts is it a issue if your both flirts the relationship can still be on. When you finishing providing food and seeing movies talk about the state of your love and friendship for present and future so it will be for the better or best.
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