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writes:Dear Cupid ,I am in Lust with one of my co- workers at my job but he is spoken for we flirt with each other every time we get a chance over the week end I spoke to him on the phone my heart was melting with pleasure I could n't believe I was talking to my crush.I was wondering would it be morally wrong to invite my crush to my home for dinner only !:/ help
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 May 2013):
 Yes ,it's wrong, it's the intention that counts. If you really only wanted to have dinner with him, you could suggest dining out in a restaurant- and maybe his gf could tag along too :).
The reason why you want him at your home is that you hope to set the scene for things to go out of hand and progress in a certain way. So that after you can say : oh it was supposed to be just a friendly dinner... but, " it just happened ".
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013): Golden Rule call here. do unto his girl as you would have her do unto you.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 May 2013):
 Aw, c'mon, you know that if you invite him to dinner, without the person he is spoken for, means you are wanting something to develop. Some honestly with yourself is called for, how moral could it be.
It is immoral. Don't do it!
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