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anonymous
writes: I have a huge crush on my classmate since the start of the semester so during the last day of the semester I decided to approach him and introduce myself. It went pretty well. He told me that he actually wanted to talk to me too and he was very flirty. He got my number and told me that we should hang out this summer. But when we started texting, he was still very flirty but I didn't know how to flirt so my replies were just normal then after a while he stopped replying. I texted him the next night but he replied the next day after his work then I replied after two hours then he stopped replying again. So after that i didnt bother texting him again. its been about 5 days since then. So how can I get him to flirt with me again? And i really wanna be at least friends with him and also get to hangout with him this summer.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 May 2013):
Don't worry about looking like a stalker, just contact him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIs it too late to follow up what I wanted to say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried to call him last Thursday but then it went to his voicemail. I panicked so i didnt leave a message and just ended the call when I heard the voicemail. I didnt bother explaining to him why I called and just left it at that. My friend said I looked like a stalker.. What should I do?!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (16 May 2013):
Yeah, text may be your only form of communication, but look where it's got you. Two people can only carry on for so long by text. Be brave, make a phone call and tell him you were wondering if he'd like to fill in the blank.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow do I ask him out? Like, do I text him "Hey, what's up? Wanna hang out this weekend?" (Text because it's our only form of communication now 'cause we don't really see each other anymore since the semester's over.)
Thank you so much for your answers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013): When you ask how to get him to flirt with you again, I suspect you mean you'd like him to text you?
Perhaps like many people, he might not like communicating via text if he doesn't have to.
And like many men his age, he might be a bit shy and doesn't want to ask out a woman, invest time in flirting, or replying to texts when he's not sure how they feel.
Perhaps like many women your age, you feel a little scared of confronting him directly, so you end up texting?
I'd quit with the texting. If you were brave enough to introduce yourself, you're probably brave enough to ask him to hang out with your or go out with you at some point. Unlike a text, I think he might find the gesture very flattering even if he says no. And int he best case scenario, he would be encouraged by the invitation.
Good luck.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (16 May 2013):
You probably gave him the impression you weren't interested. What you need to do is be a little more direct and ask him out. After that he'll have no doubt that you're interested and he'll probably start flirting again.
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