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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have had an on and off again with a guy for a few years now. Recently I ended it because he was being a jerk and I said we shouldn't talk anymore if that was how he was gonna be. He responded with bye. I thought it was done then the next day he wrote back saying how he knows that was the answer I was looking for and that he never gave an answer. when I replied to him what was his answer he didn't respond. now recently he texts me saying hi. I respond but he doesn't reply back. so why does he continue to keep doing this text and then.leave thing?anyone know why?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 June 2013):
 Why does he do it? Because you PLAY the game. He didn't like being dumped so by texting you here and there he is getting his ego stroked, because you STILL pay attention to him.
Block his number or just ignore them. EVERY time.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2013): Just totally ignore him hes a very bad attention seeker and he will just make you feel depressed. Stay away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2013): Because he's a bore and he needs to get a hobby! Lol tell him to bore off, how irritating
Like the others said, he's just doing it to kill some time with a bit of ego reflexology... Lol!
Maybe stay friends with him, it depends on whether he's worth the effort, you said he's a jerk...
If not move on and forget about him- and tell him to get a hobby... Lol!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 June 2013):
 because he knows his behavior is not acceptable to you but every time you respond to him you stroke his ego.
do not respond to him ever.
it's over and done... delete his number and block him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 June 2013):
 The only conclusion that I have is that he likes to mess with your head. He knows that you are interested in him and he likes the attention he gets from you. He likes the fact that a girl is interested in him and he is probably bored so sends a message now and again knowing he will get a response. It makes him feel good yet it is messing with your emotions. Your best bet is to stop all contact with him and find a guy who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, yes this might be hard to do but with will power you can restrain yourself from talking to him and you will move forward in no time. Good luck.
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