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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I saw my boyfriend yesterday. We had sex with each other. I was only at his house for about four hours, He told me to go home earlier than I usually do. He said he was going to go shopping ( the supermarket closed a few hours later). He also asked me if I could give him his money back when he walked me home. He had asked me to hold on to some money of his and it was at my house. He told me that he needed it for the supermarket. He also told me that he would text me when he got home. He didn't text me then, but he text me after I had gone to bed. He said that he had been asleep and that's why he had text me late. He sent me a message on facebook this morning and said he hated this man that he knows. Then he posted a status message saying that he had been in a fight. I got angry then because it sounded like the fight had happened last night ( it would have either been last night or this morning ). I asked him why he lied to me about wanting to go shopping ( the fight happened in town but the supermarket that he was supposed to go to isn't in town ). I was also worried about why he had been in a fight ( I assumed it was because of something he had done). I asked him what caused it, and he told me that two of his friends had been arguing over a woman ( one was her ex and she is going out with the other one ), and my boyfriend got caught in the middle of it all. My boyfriend got angry with me because I had been angry with him. and he said he had wasted his time with me and he blocked me on facebook.I do know that he has got involved with other peoples arguments before that too. He was stupid getting involved. He could have got seriously hurt, or worse!. Was I wrong to react the way I did?. I just don't like people lying to me, especially my boyfriend. I don't know if we will ever sort things out. Maybe he really did fall asleep and then went shopping later in town, and then bumped into his friends?. I thought that he might have used the money to go for a drink in town though, and he might have been drunk when he bumped into his friends. I know I wont know what happened unless we speak to each other again though.I was upset that me sent me home earlier than usual yesterday, and it looked bad that we had been intimate and he took that money. Who was right, me or him?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2013): Your BF either has serious issues in controlling his emotions or he got caught in a lie. Why would be block you on FB? I suggest you ignore him and don't contact him again. Also why could you not join him shopping? After being intimate with someone you generally want to be close to the person, if its just chatting or shopping especially in the afternoons and with your free time. Sounds to me that he is not into you, just in for sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2013): He sounds like a pain in the a**e to me- moody, volatile and occasionally aggressive? Taking his stupid strops out on you, he needs to sort it out and grow up sorry... And the lying you have every right to be upset about...
Talk to him about your feelings, why you're upset and peeved- you're not in deep and if it carries on just get rid. Because it's just guna make you emotional and turn your hairs grey... Lol xx good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2013): Your boyfriend has issues with anger and doesn't know how to mind his own business. He is going to have legal problems eventually; and he is already lying to you to avert your attention from his activities. He is also avoiding any suggestion to stay out of trouble.
Guys who get into fights are trouble-makers. They look for trouble when it doesn't really concern them.
You will not take this advice; but I'll give it to you anyway.
He is trouble and you should dump him. It is only a matter of time before his violent tendencies become apparent in your relationship. You'll have the police knocking at your door looking for him someday.
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reader, Got Issues +, writes (24 June 2013):
 Only he knows whether he was lying, but do you really want to be with a guy who gets into fights, especially one who gets involved in other people's fights? I don't know about you but to me that is very unattractive.
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