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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl a few weeks ago at uni through a friend and she stayed back a couple of hours to study with me alone. I really liked her and we had some good conversation so I got her number, however it was right before exams and she was busy so we couldn't really hang out or meet up again.My question is simple. I want to know how to ask her hang out with me without sounding too desperate or clingy or random. It's been a few weeks (exams are now over) and we haven't really spoken or texted or anything of the sort since.Also sort of activity would be suitable, to get to know her better if we were to hang out?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (25 June 2013):
What's with guys who think it makes them sound desperate or clingy because they want to be with a woman? You want to be with a woman because you're a heterosexual man, now act like one and ask her out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2013): Just go for it- a coffee- or, (my preference) a drink in the evening :) nothing messy haha, just think there's something buzzing and charged about evening dates- you can bask in the night air, relax and chill and just get to know each other a bit. Can both get a bit done up but it's not going overboard, perfect balance :)
Doesn't matter where you take her, as long as it's got attractive surroundings... Maybe somewhere with psychedelic colours... Lol! :)
If she likes you- likely, she'll accept. If not, it's a miss this time, it won't be the last, it happens to all of us! :) x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 June 2013):
 no i think it would be fine to call her and say "now that exams are over how about we get a cup of coffee just the two of us?"
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