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writes:I'm in a very committed relationship.Im at the point where I want to have sex but I'm nervous because I'm a virgin.I just want some tips on what I can do to make it more pleasurable since they say it hurts your first time.I just need some tips that makes it seem at least a little that I know what I'm doing. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2013): Hi :) Although you should consider waiting a while, I personally think if you are in a committed relationship, and you both feel you are ready, then there is no problem with this. Being a bit apprehensive isn't necessarily a sign you aren't ready - everyone is a bit nervous their first time, whether they're 17 or 30. The fact that you are mature enough to ask for advice before leaping into something shows you are probably ready and have thought about this seriously. As you're relationship is 'very committed' it would suggest you are very comfortable with each other, so that should make things easier. Don't feel shy, just go with what feels good. Ask your boyfriend to go slowly (does he know you're a virgin? if not, you should tell him so he can be more carefully), and make sure you do lots of foreplay so you're really turned on beforehand and then it is less likely to hurt. Most of all JUST RELAX and enjoy yourself :)But agreeing with the people below, do make sure you are really ready and comfortable with this before you have sex - otherwise you will just regret it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2013): I agree that you should wait a while...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2013): Wait until he puts a ring on it and marries you. If you were ready you wouldn't be asking this question.
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