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writes:It has been 10 months since I have had a relationship. And my last relationship wasn't the most amazing.I did start seeing a guy a few months ago, around June time. We didn't sleep with each other, but we have fore play. (We didn't have sex as we didn't have any protection)I've started talking to a guy. We met whilst I was in college, through a couple of my friends who were studying the same topic as me. He's in the army and is home for the weekend, we're going to meet up and go to the cinema for a catch up.I think it's because I haven't had a relationship in so long. But whenever I speak to a guy, and go out for the day or on a 'date', I'm straight away thinking about having a relationship with them. I've never thought anything like this before, I feel that I'm desperate for something to happen.Nearly all of my friends have broken up with their ex's (around the same time as I did) and they're already in new relationships. I think I feel left out.I don't know what kind of advise I'm looking for or what I'm going to get. I just know that I feel pretty down in the dumps.Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was worried I was abit desperate! I do know a few people who are like me, but at least I know now! :)
That is very true - I need to see what's out there before I sit and wait around for the right guy
Thank you very much! :)
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (9 August 2013):
 Yeah, you are sounding like you're mildly desperate for a legitimate relationship.
No harm in that so long as these guys that you're seeing are guys that you actually like, and you're not letting them take advantage of the fact that you're lonely.
Also remember that every guy you date can't be "the one," but each romantic experience will give you greater insight to what it is that will truly make you happy in a relationship so that you'll easily recognize Mr. Right when he comes into your life.
Have fun with the Army dude!
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