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writes: Okay first off, I am a female myself. Lately, especially the last year that is, I've felt a sort of strange attraction towards women that I can't really describe. Not sure if this has much to do with it but I know of myself that I am definitely not straight.It's like, any woman who gives me the least bit of attention I already become attached to. Maybe it's their kindness, or their gaze or smile that makes me feel so warm inside, I don't know. I've had these females who just by looking me in the eye made me fall for them , although I am not sure that is the right way to describe it. It's like some sort of spiritual thing which pulls me towards them almost. It's not that I don't ever feel attracted to a male but that is more in a way of thinking he is very handsome, nothing more in most cases, like being desperate to be with him or a strange longing. With some females I can literally drive myself insane if I am not with them, or if they don't pay any attention to me. I just want to be noticed by them. And I am also a very sensitive and emotional person so if they have a caring nature I immediately get attached to them and I want them to hug me and touch me and care for me in a loving way (nothing like sexual most of the time though, so that's not the case). I have a very loving family/mother so it's also not that I need a mother figure in my life or whatever. The thing is that this is starting to get quite out of hand. For instance I begin feeling this towards teachers and it makes it harder for me to attend their classes because they make me feel anxious. It's just making me feel very pathetic. Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (25 August 2013):
 I am certainly no expert but I've responded to your letter as you don't appear to have any answers from anyone more knowledgeable.
I really think you need to speak to a professional person about your sexuality so that you fully explore lesbianism and bi-sexuality and find out more about yourself.
You're drawn to other women and fantasising about them thus making more of the situation than there really is. This is causing you problems so I think you should contact a gay/lesbian support group and get some advice from really experienced people.
I'm sure there's nothing wrong with you other than an identity crisis.
Discover who you are and what you want and I think you'll have more prospective.
I'm sorry I can't be of more help x
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