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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My ex and i were together for four years. We were very serious and i had his commitment. We were in LDR and he broke up with me a month before we planned to see each other. Ive been miserable for three months. Lately he came back to me saying he misses me and wants to work it out. Its just too late because im over him. I dont want him back. I know what our problem is and it will just be there but im sad that we were so in love and we knew im his one and hes my one. I know some people married to someone that they dont love the most. I dont want to be one of them. How do i cope with thus feeling?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2013): If you're sure the problem will always be there, then there is your answer.
Stick to your guns, don't back down out of pity, regret, insecurity or fear of hurting him. You gave it a chance, you broke up, you worked on it, and now don't go backwards.
Move forward and good luck.
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