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writes:So my pharmacist was checking me out the other day. I noticed him when he was coming back from his lunch break and I spotted him out of my peripheral. He slowed all the way down and stood there looking me over (like he was waiting on something) but I didn't turn to look at him just then. It was time for him to open the counter back up so he couldn't really stand around all day and there were two other customers behind me. When he came into my direct line of view I gave him eye contact, he did a double take and then asked, "hey how are you?" and I responded that I was fine.The eye contact was strong from his end too. The lady behind me said he had a smile on his face when he was walking away. He did not speak to the other customers and I noticed he had his phone out.I was there weeks before that incident when I saw him observing me from well behind the counter. He was working on something and so every once in a while he would look up at me. I was in the fruit section at that time. Maybe I should go back around his break time again lol. I don't get approached that often so that's why I'm unsure. I've been a customer at this pharmacy for years and it's only the second time I've noticed him noticing me.So do you think he was wanting to talk to me but decided not to at that time? Should I go back to see if I have a chance at speaking with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2013): I think he's pretty interested, as it's not like he was only looking at you a lot because you were staring at him for one! He notices you, singles you out from the crowd and makes conversation :)
A lot of very attractive women don't get approached or stared at cos men are intimidated or shy. N vice versa- Im attractive but if I see a really buff model type I don't bother cause 1. That's not really my type anyway but also 2. With really good looking people often comes lots of hassles I.e in high demand! Haha!
Def some interest there, so yeah go back in your own time, play it cool and coy with the right amount of nice! ;)
Good luck!! :) xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2013): Been there, done that...He may be interested, he may not be.He may just enjoy the view, maybe that is all.He may have a crush, maybe not.However, a man who knows what he wants, doesn't just "stare" and do nothing! Often in my past when I was younger like you, if guys only stared but did nothing, like those at gym, behind counters, etc. it's because they already have a girlfriend but they can't help staring... but they don't pursue because they can't. I found out the hard way. I observed a guy at gym always staring at me, being friendly, but never asking me out as he had the opportunity. One day his gf came to visit him there, and then I knew. Thanks for nothing.Another one was behind a fast food counter. He stared all the time, we would both blush, we would feel the energy and chemistry and what have you, but he never asked me out.One day, I saw HIS gf coming to visit. So ... this does not mean your pharmacist has a girl already, he could be shy, he could be drawing up the courage, or he is just enjoying you as a client.When a guy is really interested, he will move the earth to ask you out!!!Mine did (my free single guy) and we are together ever since.
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