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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2013): I am 23 and dating a man 18 years older than me....if you two are attracted to eachother then u need to establish whether it's lust or whether u actually feel something for him...by the sound of it he is already into you but you need to actually go out on a date as friends and see how things are between u before u can establish if he is genuine or not
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reader, natasia  +, writes (12 August 2013):
 Looking at the lips is a 110% giveaway. Trust me.
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reader, natasia +, writes (12 August 2013):
It means he wants to have sex with you. What else could it mean?
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reader, MsSadie  +, writes (12 August 2013):
 Does he give you any other body language cues that would suggest interest? For example, does he touch you (on the arm, shoulder, back) when you two talk?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 August 2013):
 it means you have a crush and are looking for signs he returns your feelings...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 August 2013):
 Is he married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2013): It means he has got very good communication and social skills. And it also means he is very attentive to make sure he gives off that impression.
That's all it means.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (12 August 2013):
 No one's going to be able to read his mind. We're merely human. Why don't you ask him yourself?
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reader, llifton +, writes (12 August 2013):
 maybe it means he's really good at eye contact?
no one can really speculate what it means without being a fly on the wall to watch you two interact. does he go out of his way to touch you at all in the slightest? does he find ways of bumping into you frequently or make excuses to be near you? does his body language show interest? there's a million factors that play in.
maybe he likes you. who knows?
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reader, malvern +, writes (12 August 2013):
 He fancies you but be careful. He's a work colleague and it can be become a very awkward situation if you encourage him and then find out he's not really what you want. There's also the fact that he may be married. It is best not to encourage this man. Just continue treating him as your superior at work and nothing more.
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reader, splash88 +, writes (12 August 2013):
he respects you enough to make eye contact.
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