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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone so I'm 16 and I need help! I became bestfriends with a guy(also 16) from my school when I moved near him as I didn't know anyone he was really nice and we went to work in the same place we'd walk to work together. I knew we were just friends as he had a girlfriend. But one day on the way back from work he stopped, pulled me towards him and kissed me it was magical I kissed him back (I've liked this guy longer than his been with his girl friend. Evr since then we've been a 'thing' we always hug and kiss and I went to his and we had sex and he snuck into mine through my window ( so my parents didn't see) and joined me in the shower. He's an amazing caring person and its not all about the sex(we used protection and I also have taken a pregnancy test and I aren't pregnant he said he would only ever want kids with me) I love him so much and the only person that knows apart from me and him is his dad ('tom' stupidly put the condom in the bin and his dad put 2 and 2 together) he said 'tom' had to choose and thought he should stay faithful to his girlfriend and leave me but 'tom' refused and said he loved me not her. He says he'll break up with her when she's back from her holiday can I trust him or should I leave him help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2013): Its too late for him to stay faithful to his girlfriend considering he's already had sex with you and other stuff besides. Also if I was you I'd take a leap back and realise that if this guy is capable of cheating on one girl, he is capable of cheating on any other girl too (in this case, YOU). But of course for him to cheat on you he'd have to be exclusively in a relationship with you, but as for him saying he will leave his gf for you, I'd take that with a pinch of salt as well as if/when he tells you he loves you. I assume he has told his gf he loves her throughout their relationship and look where that relationship has gone to...he doesn't value the feelings of anyone but himself from reading your post, I maybe wrong I guess.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 August 2013):
 Oh dear...
his dad is right TOM has to choose... TOM is currently a liar and a cheater... what an upright fellow he is...
When gf gets back from her holiday he's either going to break up with her (which still makes him a liar and a cheater and potentially he will do the same to you that he's done to his trusting girlfriend)
OR
he will continue to lie to her and use you and lie to you saying "i wanted to break up with her but now that school is coming... I can't"
or a million other excuses as to why he can't break up with her and yet still has to climb in your window and use you for sex...
LEAVE HIM...
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