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writes:A question for you girls. If a girl ask a guy when was your last relationship and the guy replies he never had one why would the girl get scared off and not give that person a chance? Though he is very nice and friendly why do women shun away from that guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2012): It's just a double standard that some women have.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 That seems pretty weird to me. Some women who are lacking in confidence need the proof that someone else has found a guy "dating material" before they will take the leap I think. I've never understood it. My boyfriend had never had a girlfriend before me and I found that kind of shyness cute. I honestly can't see why she would reject you for lack of experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2012): Just to add, combine very nice, friendly with confidence, determination etc. and you're on to a winner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2012): Experience can be quite valuable to people OP, a guy with experience will have made a lot of mistakes and learned from them, learned a lot about how things work and are usually better able to sweep women off their feet and chase well.
A guy with experience knows how to woo women better, is generally more confident when interacting with them and has gotten over that awkward, fumbling sexual stage and is more likely to know how to pleasure a woman.
A lot of women don't like the idea of having to be a mentor to a guy with no experience.
For the record OP "very nice and friendly" = friend. Very nice and friendly doesn't get you the girl on its own, determination, confidence, persistence and romance gets you the girl. Lack of experience is not nearly as important as how you make a girl feel in the moment, very nice and friendly will make her feel comfortable and respected; determination, confidence etc. will make her feel wanted and desirable.
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reader, agneeman  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 I wouldn't. I would date him in a heartbeat. Unless by "never had a relationship" I thought he meant "only had flings"
But thats just me, I don't like man hoe's
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