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writes:I've have a cousin that i'm very close with but,for the past few years she's been doing some really out of pocket shit to me.I've been wanting to cut her out of my life for a while now but,i've been too afraid to.For the past few years our relationship has been based on her only kicking it with me when it's convenient for her and,me not wanting to curse her out because if i lose her,i won't have anyone (my own age) to be with.But now i don't give a fuck about that anymore,so how can i kick her out of my life permanently?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2012): Just don't respond to her when she contacts you and don't hang with her.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 July 2012):
 Since she is family, I would suggest that the "easiest" way it just to slowly stop being in contact. Don't text or call her, and if she calls/text tell her you can't make it. Sooner or later she will find someone else to hang out with.
Now if she gets angry at you, maybe being honest will do the trick, tell her you feel it's just to one-sided for you and you feel like you two have just grown apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2012): Sounds like young love to me. The two of you are in love and can't stand it because of the prejudice you would face. So she treats you horribly and you curse her behind her back. Wisdom would say don't do anything irreversible, but it doen't sound like you are ready for wisdom; young love never is. You might challenge her. Ask her if she loves you. If not, off she goes in a huff and no sweat. If she does love you, then (and not until then) you have to search your own heart. If it goes in the direction of marrying her, of course there is that prejudice thing again. But we all face prejudice in one form or another. Maybe this reference will help, I mean if it comes to that of course.An Association between Kinship and Fertility of Human Couples Agnar Helgason et al. SCIENCE vol. 329 no. 5864 February 8, 2008 page 813 – 816
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