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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this girl I wanna ask out in my college class. I don't know her. She's just a girl in my class. I am a very shy person, especially when it comes to girls. This is only the case before I know a person.Anyway, I made a bit of progress. A few days ago I made eye contact with her for the first time which is a big step in my opinion from not even being able to look her in the eye prior to that. Even though it felt really hard to do, I attempted to break from being shy and tried to talk to her. I used the books she was carried, asking her about her classes. She talked to me for like a minute but then it was interrupted by the rest of my classmates as they walked into the classroom so I didn't get to talk to her as much as I had hoped.I was going to ask her out that day but I chickened out, mostly because I thought she would be alone but she wasn't. I have only one more chance because next day will be the last day of class so I know I have to take it a chance because I might not get another one ever. I feel a bit more confident having talked to her but I'm still nervous.I won't get much talking time if any and she will be with a friend of her's for sure this time.How do I go about asking her out? *I don't want to ask her to do anything special since neither of us know each other aside from the fact that we have the same class and we talked for a bit. I was thinking coffee or a bite to eat if coffee sounds like something an old person would ask*
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 July 2012):
 Just go for it, as you said you only have this one chance left, so you have nothing to lose. If she is with her friends then just ask her could you talk to her in private for a minute, then once you have her alone, just ask her would she like to maybe grab lunch a day with you and get to know each other better, or even for a cup of coffee, sounds fair to me. At least then you will know your answer and you will not be left wondering, good luck.
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