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writes:My mate (we are both 18 - he's nearly 19) used to be a really nice guy and somewhere in him, he still is, but since he had some big family problems, he's become an a$$hole. He has few morals left, always talks about sex and mentioned cheating, but I hope the 'old' him is still in him enough so that he wouldn't. I care about him because he's been my friend for two years, but it's kind of worrying knowing what he was and what he is now. I know I can't change him, but is there anyway I can help him out of it (if he wants to) before he ends up getting himself in real trouble? He doesn't have any good relationships anymore, but I still have faith in him sorting himself out. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2012): he sounds like he just needs to be reminded of who he used to be. WHen you first became friends did you do any thing regularly or anything special? talk about anything important? I'd say just take him out for a few drinks and reminis about past memories, and might make him realise how good things used to be. Doesnt have to be emotional or heart to heart stuff, just a laugh about the past and the stuff you used to do.
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