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female
age
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anonymous
writes: Hi everyone I would like to ask if it's considered cheating if I went out one to one with a guy even though I'm attached. For the record, the guy knows I'm attached and my bf also knew that I was going out with that guy and he was totally fine with it. Things are completely platonic btw us and we were just catching up because we have not seen each other for almost a year. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (18 January 2012):
No thats not cheating - as long as your friend is aware your in a relationship, your boyfriend is ok with it and you dont have ANY feelings for him that are more than friendship then it is perfectly fine.
Men and women are allowed to be friends and see each other one on one, as long as there are no feelings involved then no harm can be done.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 January 2012):
IF your BF knew and was ok with it and you don't lie about anything that went on or feelings that you have then in my book it's not cheating.
MY personal rules state that *anything* you can't won't or don't tell your partner (in advance) is cheating.
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