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writes:Yesterday I was at the book store and I ran into a man who's in my class. We've only exchanged pleasantries, nothing more. Yet he seemed it he was very rude to me, making a very inappropriate comment about me.We had been talking and he said he had assumed I already had kids and a family but that now he didn't think so. When I asked why he said "because you're a virgin".I still cant understand why he'd think that and then tell me straightforward that I am a virgin. Truth be told I am one but I don't go about telling that information and I am in a new state college where nobody knows me at all. I'm twenty by the way and I can tell he's older. So really with him being older he should know better as to not say those things. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011): he is a dirty old man.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (25 December 2011):
 You're right. It was a tad forward.
So what's your question?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011): Um...reality check. Older people can be creeps and jerks too.
He was probably just being a perv and wanted to see your reaction to that. It's college, you'll have some weirdos talk to you. I once had a guy ask me what body piercings I had while we were on the elevator together. I had never seen that guy before in my life. I near spit in his face.
Same guy (coincidentally) was in a geo. class with me and told me he wanted to go out with me, that i seemed like i'd be great in bed. I responded sure, I already scream your name almost every night...he looked all surprised and flattered...and then I said, because you have the same name as my BOYFRIEND, YOU ASS.
(You learn how to deal with guys like this.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011): He should know better, but maybe it was his lame way of trying to find out that your a virgin for sure. Though it is none of his business or anyone else's. He was very rude and intrusive, I would stick to only being pleasant to him when it was needed (for classes if needed), and just avoid him the rest of the time, he is rude and totally disrespectful.
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