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I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy?

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Question - (28 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *user writes:

I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007):

Yah, sure. He is 18 years older than you right? OK, if you want a feel for what it will be like, go to an old folk's home when it is 'depends' changing time. That's you in 40 years baby. Dump the horny old soon to be geezer, and get someone your own age. Really. There is a reason women his own age aren't interested in him.

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntA lot of younger women tend to go for the older man - they seem to be more mature and sure about themselves.

Its not crazy and as long as you are both okay with the age gap then there isnt a problem.

He probably is more sure of himself and ready to settle down though - your still young so think about if you are ready for a more commited relationship.

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A female reader, theothergirl United States +, writes (28 May 2007):

To tell you the truth, it will be hard to adapt to his little ways because of the age gap. But if you guys are in love with each other, it will work out. Just don't let it get boring. Always make sure that you're there for him and make sure that he understands you and and you do too. Try to know as much as it is to know about him so you know that its not because he wants to use a young girl that he's with you. Also have in mind that you don't have nothing to lose. Meaning that you ahould do whatever it takes, I you really love this guy, to go out of your way to know him in and out. Because sometimes, they don't really care about no one but themselves.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (28 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntYou have to know what you're gettnig yourself into. He's an older man, and therefore in a different mental mindstate. You're young, and want to go out and party and he probably wants to get married, settle down, have kids, and stay in...

DV1

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