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writes: my wife has told me she does not feel sexualy attracted to me anymore how can we get over this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, superfly +, writes (11 June 2007):
Take her to a dance club to see other women give you a lap dance....get her approval.
I read somewhere, this re-stimulates loss sexual tensions.
good luck.
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female
reader, NowWhat? +, writes (29 May 2007):
Unlike men who are visual creatures, sexual excitement for women is usually emotional so this is where you need to start your foreplay. little gestures showing that you care. listen more (empatheticly without proposing solutions), help a bit around the house, bring her inexpensive gifts, go to a lingerie store and pick smthg you'd love to see her in, better yet, take her with you. Hold her often and tell her how much you love her and what you find sexy about her.
Start with a vacation someplace you both have been wanting to go to or where you have fond memories together. If you can't afford that now just take her out to a nice romantic dinner and woe her all over again.
Read up on tantric sex or download "500 lovemaking tips and tricks" and read it together and pick what you'd like to try out together.
I hope ypu find this helpful.. All my best wishes of happiness for you both xxxxx
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female
reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
Maybe you both need to spend some quality time together, take her out like you did before you married and re discover the sexual spark.
Im sure you can work through this and be happy.
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male
reader, DV1 +, writes (28 May 2007):
You can divorce her. That's pretty much your only option, because you can't live with a person who can't satisfy you anymore.
DV1
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